Search Results: relationship red flags

Is it a red flag if a woman says she divorced her husband because he is controlling? If so, how is this bad?

I shared with a new partner that I left my ex because he was controlling and we grew apart - he was my 1st relationship, how bad was this. I haven't heard from my new partner in 2 days after I shared that. I dont know why.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I give him another chance?

I’m in conflict. I don’t know if I should give this guy another chance. He has hurt me in the past. At that time, he was having something with me while he was on a break with his then girlfriend (we met on a dating app at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, boyfriend said he wasn't comfortable taking me on a trip because?

My boyfriend of one year, we are in a long-distance relationship and have never been intimate since he's so busy with his job, plus he lives three hours away from me. (We've kissed and held hands, but I don't really get...

Ghen28

Xper 4 Age: 26

Is it a red flag if a guy is moving into a relationship too fast, floods you with a lot of compliments, or keeps asking if you could come over?

BG_21

Xper 4 Age: 23

30 and Never been in a relationship?

Due to spending my entire life trying to escape from a very difficult home life, I've never been in a relationship. I know that at almost 30, this might seem unusual, but if you've lived my life, you'd understand why....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have red flags I can’t tolerate when dating, what are yours?

So I have three red flags in dating, when two out of three are there, then I can’t date that person. 1- absence of “last seen” and “blue ticks” in messaging apps: These people tend to dictate the conversation time...

AliSulayman

Xper 4 Age: 38

In a relationship, is it okay for your significant other to wear what they want?

In some relationships, partners don’t care what their partner wears. In other instances, some guys control what their girl wears and prohibiting her from wearing items like a crop top or choker necklace. Is this normal...

Anonymous

(18-24)

In some relationships, partners don’t care what their partner wears. In other instances, some guys control what their girl wears and prohibiting her from wearing items like a crop top

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Is 12 body count a lot for a 21 year-old guy?

I'm getting to know a guy on Tinder. I try to ask him if he thinks he is loyal or not. He said that he would be as loyal as SpongeBob to Patrick) I ask him to tell me more about his past relationships so he was honest to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this a sign of a controlling trait and is it a red flag?

I started seeing a guy and he always dictates when we see each other. When I ask to see him he responds the next day. So now I just wait for him to reach out to make plans. it’s as though he wants to control and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are men never held accountable whenever a woman cheats on them?

It takes two to tango. Whenever a relationship is progressing or failing. In the end both parties are held accountable for the actions of the relationship, right? So, whenever guys cheat. They obviously cheat because...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he acting this way towards me when HE is the one that broke things off?

I was talking to this coworker for a couple of months, just dating, getting to know him. In the beginning it was great; he made big gestures and was a gentlemen and seemed like he cared, But I’m not gonna lie I noticed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you stop yourself from falling for a player?

I have this friend and I love him but not really romantically just as a friend but he's a massive flirt with everyone and abit of retired player. He has a girlfriend and has told me he wants to marry her soon but I'm...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are the most difficult red flags to see in relationships?

Being_a_good_Indian

Master Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

How do I go about fixing this relationship, am I wrong?

my ex boyfriend "Chris" and I broke up a few weeks ago but we've been talking abit. when we broke up he was being super indecisive about our relationship. We have broken up before that a previous amount of times but I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you guys think he was only using me to forget about someone?

He started treating like a girlfriend after 3 months and confessed “his love for me”. I mean he was going slow and then after 3 months suddenly became fast. Then when I asked him to just be friends (because he had some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The Top 7 Traits to Look for in a Truly Good Man

We all know that finding an ideal guy can be tough. Whether you’re navigating the treacherous waters of online dating or simply trying to figure out if the guy you just met is worth your time, it can be hard to know what...

MzAsh

Master Age: 41

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New girlfriend red flags?

So my new girlfriend has some things I'm wondering are possible red flags.. she has severe Adhd, depression, unresolved trauma, just got out of a abusive relationship and is also poly. Should I let this one go?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I friendzoned a guy I like and he stopped talking to me?

I thought you start a relationship by being friends and getting to know each other better. Because my ex completely destroyed me and I’m not looking my best for him. I’m extremely depressed and have trust issues. This guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)