Is 12 body count a lot for a 21 year-old guy?

[Anonymous]

I'm getting to know a guy on Tinder. I try to ask him if he thinks he is loyal or not. He said that he would be as loyal as SpongeBob to Patrick) I ask him to tell me more about his past relationships so he was honest to say 12 body count and most girls he talks with were just trying to have sex. Is it too many red flags for this guy? I'm virgin though, dont plan to hookups and my profile on Tinder says so

[abc3643]

A body count of 12 is high for ANYONE OF ANY AGE.

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This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.

If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

More than 10 guys / girls is really too much.

For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m


Why guys are worried about high body count...

Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Assuming he lost his virginity at 16 or 17 which is the most people lose their virginity at least here in the U. S.

Having sex with 12 girls assuming he isn't lying that's a lot of girls for a guy that is 21 years old.

Realistically speaking he will have fun with you too, don't expect this guy to stay with you long term if you decide to date him.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Also keep mind, people are Tinder aren't people that are looking for serious relationships to begin with.

[Asker]

I mean I’m scared of that too. I stated that in my profile that I won’t do hookups. I texted him and said that too. The way he texted me back sounds respectful to my boundaries. He says he would just go with the flow whatever happens

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I wouldn't trust him. The dude sleeps around a lot. Use good judgment.

[DarkWinterNights]

I personally wouldn’t date someone in the double digits. I’m not a virgin so I don’t expect a potential partner to be, but 12 indicates he hooks up. Especially at that age. A lot of people claim body count is different for men and woman, but if I was a woman I wouldn’t want a guy who’s been with a ton of women either. I would find a better guy.

[Anonymous]

Yes run away from this and Tinder is for hookups. If you're virgin, stay away from there.

[Asker]

I stated that I won’t hookups on my profile though. I texted about that too and his text sounds respectful to my boundaries. But honestly, I’m scared

[Opinion Owner]

There are tons of guys called "players". Not implying you'd fall for it, but tons of girls before you have. They say the right things and act the right way, then take your virginity and ghost you. Please don't go on Tinder. Plenty of decent guys IRL and even from Facebook or Match/eHarmony.

[MementoMori777]

Yea that's a lot of bodies tbh but I guess if you wanna give him the chance, the choice is for you to make nit any of us

[megabamse]

It all depends on when he lost is V-card. The longer time from nr 1 to be 12 the better.

[TooHot2Care]

Nah, dive in head first. Ignore your brain. Listen to the butterflies.

[Anonymous]

Yes, don't even meet with him, he is a player and wants to play you.

[Pegases]

No, Id say that is normal.

[In_Trance]

That depends on what you compare it to

[WanderingLoveWizard]

It's high

[Anonymous]

Some guys would call you a public property

[Opinion Owner]

I read it wrongly. He sounds like a public property

[Anonymous]

Too many for anyone that age.

[Iron_Man]

Way to much