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A typical thing all the ”experts” mention when talking about dating and “signs that he/she is interested” etc… is that the other person initiates contact with you, preferably as much as you but at least they do it once in a while.

And I agree that it’s a good indicator, cause I would never initiate contact with someone I don’t have any interest to speak with. What kind of interest we can never know from that.

But at least for me, and probably very many others out there, the situation where it’s kind of a never ending contact happens. When it’s always “pingpong”/“call and response”. I send a message, I get response, I reply, they reply etc… and just sometimes there will be a gap until the next afternoon before either me or them replies… but mostly the message isn’t even read and there are obvious reasons for that to have happened. Maybe I or they read/open a message/snap in the evening but don’t reply until the next afternoon… is that a new initiation or is it still just response?

How do we know who is initiating when it never really ends? What are your experiences? Tell me what you think