I met a guy on tinder, got banned (no idea why) and met again on bumble, we had good conversations spanning over a few days and we decided to move it onto snapchat. We were talking on there for 3 weeks but then over the weekend he's just left me on delivered. He has a busy schedule but that has never stopped him from having at least some conversation with me. I tried to message him through out the weekend but he's not replied. His snapscore went up on the Saturday but not on the Sunday. Im so confused as to what has happened?
So, just so you know (you're 18, so you may not), Snap is the graveyard of Tinder/ Bumble conversations. Texting over snap is far lower on people's priorities than regular texting, and I can't tell you how many girls from Tinder/ Bumble/ Hinge, etc. that I've added to Snap and the conversation died within a few days.
If you really want to connect with someone get their number.
It's also important to know that most conversations that start up on dating apps die anyway, especially if the person is still active on there. With a constant stream of new people, new options, it's hard to keep someone's interest, and when it comes right down to it, the reason he left you on delivered is because you lost his interest (either the convo was boring, or he just found a cuter girl).
Lastly, I've learned from getting banned from Tinder myself that people must use the connection feature to give their number/ snap, etc. You can't just type your snap or number in there, or the system will flag you as spam, then ban you.
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There was no movement beyond your too long and needy texts that are so exhausting to the male.
I am not sure what a "snap score" is. Neither does my device apparently because it keeps separating those words. So, not sure the relevancy of that score and what it means. As for the rest, something might have happened and then he forgot to get back to you.
You mention he has a busy schedule. It could be that he got busy and then totally forgot he had looked at the message and then didn't reply. Maybe there is something else going on in his life right now that you don't know about.
It also could be that he just got bored or uninterested all of a sudden. The mature thing would be to say that so you are not hanging around, but not everyone has manners. In the end, no one knows why he did this but him.
All we can do is speculate and guess what the reasons might be. You might want to wait a little bit and give one last message saying that you enjoyed talking with him but if he is uninterested in chatting anymore, please let you know.
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lost phone comes to mind.
he's busy
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