Search Results: thinking about other guys

Attractive female coworker?

So I just started a new job, I'm 2 months in already. I'm starting to ask questions regarding this female coworker. I'm a guy and don't want to misunderstand anything. She buys me coffee and lunch like every day. Yes, I...

sjim508

Xper 1 Age: 38

Guys, how did you ask your significant other to be your girlfriend?

A couple of my guy friends have told me about elaborate proposals they’ve pulled off to ask a girl to be their girlfriend. One came up with a scavenger hunt and another played a game of 20 questions until she figured out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Are yelling flirtations across the street flirting or just plain weird/creepy?

I was pumping gas, and across the street was another gas station. All of a sudden I heard some guy yelling. I eventually looked up and this guy across the street was yelling "Miss! Miss! Hey Beautiful! Miss! I thought at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I a homewrecker?

Hey guys, i know the title is making u feel like "Girl what even is that question" - trust me, im not pulling no Ariana Grande but your girl needs help. I had a guy best friend and we both had feelings for each other -...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it a red flag if a man is too respectful to you?

My guy best friend thinks the man I talk to is too nice and respectful to me and he flirts very respectfully and he doesn’t sound like a man who wants to rip of your clothes, So he says, he’s confused, because when he’s...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Flirting

The guy I have a really big crush on now has my number from a hobby group I’m in, I saw him look down and smile after I texted him, what do I say now?

I met this guy about a month ago at my language group, I loved the way he spoke about things in English, and in Spanish, I like how he looks when he thinks and at first I thought maybe it was a one time thing, but no, we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my Ex-boyfriend have regrets?

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend back in January, we were thinking about marriage. I saw some red flags that I had to breakup with him for. We go to the same church every Sunday. I was super dressed up for my birthday. For...

Joyus123

Xper 3 Age: 33

I am in a relationship with someone I love but I have fallen for someone else. What is your opinion?

I (27 F) have been with my partner (33 M) for 6 years. The first year and a half was great, I was so in love that I did not notice the wrongs. Throughout the years with my partner I had my doubts and especially the way...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s wrong with me, I don’t care about anything or anyone anymore?

It started with my ex, I was feeling depressed and needy and looking back on our old texts. I really cared about her until I got depressed but then she went on and on about her depression is real mine was just young adult...

Surnami

Xper 1 Age: 25

Is this work harassment?

There’s this guy at work, he’s in his late 30s and married. He’s a jokester and makes jokes with everyone. He's a playful character. He moved down to my department a month ago, and I started noticing his behaviour towards...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl invited me out and then proceeded to ignore me all night. What does that mean?

So this girl I know invited me out basically. She asked if I'm going to a specific event at a nightclub and I said yeah, I'll see you there. Apparently she has a thing for me because she told a mutual friend who then...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My crush compared me to a man, should I be offended?

So I am talking to a guy and we’ve been getting to know eachother and we FaceTime about every other day. While on FaceTime I’m usually holding the phone close to my face so that he can only see the top half of my face...

Liveandloveit

Xper 5 Age: 29

My girlfriend has a close male friend with a better connection than me. She tells me they talk all the time🧐?

I’ve only been dating my now girlfriend for 3 months. Things have been going great, and for a long time I didn’t want to make it official until she said she didn’t want to be my friend anymore and basically said we’re...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I just assuming things that he might like me?

So there's this guy who I've been friends for years now and recently, been more actively communicating with me. He has been persistently inviting me to go hang out and asks to go with me if I hang somewhere with my other...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This old man at worktreats me like im a bratty kid. I. 40 he's 60. Now my 26 yrold lead can come Train Me on the line? What do you think is going on?

I've known my lead for almost 3 years. He's my friend and very mature for his age. He's a great friend. This other guy is probably 60 or older and he gets along with no one but me. I'm the only woman in the shop. Yes I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are people nice, when they should know better [deep question]?

I don't consider myself nice. At the very least I don't prize niceness. I value many other things ahead of it- authenticity, strength, goodness. We're done with this. But there's more. There's more interesting matter...

Private_Property

Xper 4 Age: 44