Search Results: catch him keep him

I recently met this guy. Seems pretty nice. He has similar interests. Unfortunately, lives a couple of hours away but he wants to eventually move closer to where I live (he lives in the middle of nowhere, I live in a major city, and he's been wanting to move to the major city before meeting me). So I'm okay with the distance...

Then I caught on, he doesn't have a job. He hasn't had a job in four months because apparently, his last job scammed him. He's currently looking for one that pays him well so he can move. I had asked him what about a part-time job until he finds one, and he said he rather not.

He has an associate with computers and was working IT but felt like a drone. I'm kind of at a conflict with myself because it doesn't make sense to only have a 2-year degree expecting to be making salary money while being completely unemployed and a past of him not being able to keep jobs because he simply doesn't like them.

I like this guy but if he's going to be someone who doesn't get a job or at least some kind of income I don't see a stable future with him. But I want others' opinions to make sure.

I'm not worried about him mooching off of me as I'm someone who was raised not to do that (and seen from other's experiences of how poorly it ends).

There was a guy I was admiring from afar who used to find me cute too. After he heard a rumor that I liked him, he kept an eye on me to catch me looking at him and asked others if they knew me and he stalked my friends online. I overheard a conversation between him and his friends where they said "whats her name?" and my crush replied "no one knows" and they started giggling. I felt like he tried to study me by the way he secretly glanced at me when i was talking to someone else. Why would he try so hard to get information about me instead of just approaching me? And if he was not that into me, why would he try so hard to figure me out for months?

So there’s this guy that I’ve been noticing looking at me and glancing from time to time! Tbh every time I look around I see him staring and he keeps walking past my office room, sometimes he even jumps in as if he’s trying to help! One time I was talking to a colleague and he saw us talking, I kid you not he just kept staring and listening to what we were saying I could literally see him staring the whole time from a distance but I played it cool and he didn’t notice that I catch him looking (he probably thought I was not looking) ALL this and didn’t think much of it till my colleague told me that she’s also been noticing him looking at me constantly!

What does all this mean to you? I’m confused bc he's a good guy!