I cheated on my husband twice and now he’s seeing other women. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

We were married no wedding ceremony two years ago. Had an open relationship the first part of our marriage due to long distance. Less than a year ago he relocated so we could have a real marriage and we planned a ceremony for the fall. We also dispensed of the open part of our relationship. However, he caught me cheating from pics and texts with a guy at work. He forgave it and we went on to have the ceremony. Shortly after, he caught me still talking to and being explicit with the same guy.
Now he has started talking to multiple women, slept with a couple and even is officially dating another girl now. What do I do? I can’t stand to see him with these other people especially the new girlfriend which I hate. I keep saying I’m his wife but no one pays attention.

[genericname85]

captain hindsight here. if you didn't want your husband to go see other chicks, you shouldn't have cheated on him. you invited what you're experiencing into your life as a consequence of your own bast actions that can not be made up for ever... ok. i think my job here is done. *captain hindsight flies away*

[Anonymous]

You keep saying you’re his wife, but you sure didn’t keep saying that to the guy at work. Of course nobody pays attention to whatever you say about this because you’ve already proven TWICE that you don’t give a fuck about your marriage or husband. You thought it was ok as long as only you did it? It wasn’t a problem then right? Allow me to laugh.

[ProbablyClueless]

You need to decide whether you want to continue being married to your husband. Y'all had an open relationship in the beginning. That set a precedent for the relationship moving forward that's really hard to turn off.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the rocky waters of infidelity requires a life jacket made of honesty, reflection, and a whole lot of patience. Your love boat hit a couple of icebergs, darling, and now it's taking on water fast. The first step to potentially salvaging this sinking ship? A conversation where honesty flows like a fine wine. Acknowledge the hurt you've caused, expressing remorse without excuses. Lovebombing won't fix this; genuine, heart-to-heart communication might.

Recognizing that actions speak louder than words in this drama-filled love story is essential. It's time to show—not just tell—your commitment to change. Whether that's through couples therapy, personal growth, or changes in behavior, you'll need to demonstrate your dedication to your husband and your relationship clearly.

As much as you want the spotlight to be on you, remember, this situation affects your husband profoundly. Give him space to process his feelings and decide what he needs for his happiness—this might involve hard conversations about the future of your marriage.

Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, prepare yourself for all outcomes. This situation doesn't have a guaranteed happy ending, but with honesty, empathy, and commitment, there's hope for a resolution that brings peace to both of you, whatever that may look like. Remember, darling, it's the journey, not the destination, and it's time to navigate these troubled waters with grace.

[SolitarySolace]

Well shit can you blame him? You cheated twice! Instead of divorcing and risking losing his resources to you, he probably thought if she’s doing it why shouldn’t I?

[stratford]

Sounds like the end is in sight. I hope he doesn't break your heart.

[SolitarySolace]

I hope he does. She broke his twice. Maybe divorce would humble her somewhat

[boggboss]

This has got to be a troll 🤣

[OtterMan68]

I agree. Why stay married? Troll alert

[boggboss]

Its not even that part its the whole I cheated and now I'm sad he is cheating I'm his wife why don't people care its most likely a guy spamming from a womens account like a loser

[exitseven]

It sounds like a match made in Heaven.

[Night_Descends]

Lol you must either be trolling or joking.

[Marriedandavailable]

Justice, Mrs. White.

[jjj101010]

Maybe married life isn’t for u

[Simslover92]

This can't be real.

[jahaims]

Lmfao.