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Even with no actual experience I still believe I fall under this category, I wonder if I need to manifest the law of attraction or something even though I do think that’s bs.

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. Dating apps are the only way I’ve tried dating as I dont have a social life but dating apps have been successful for quite a few people I know. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?

So, I think he isn't interested in anything more than sex.. and as much as some of you will judge me, I want a baby and I want his. I love him and i just want him. I don't mind raising the baby alone, paying for everything alone etc.. I just want the dad to still see his babies like 3hrs a week or something..

So back to the question, for him it's just a transaction (I think) .. and before I give it to him, I need to make sure that im winning too.. BUT.. but I do NOT want his $$ .. I have my shit together and I am not interested in his money (he's broke lol.. like, he only has 5$ in the bank that of thing) how much money he has don't interest me tho.. so instead of asking for money, I want his seeds..

Now how's that? If a woman you were tryna slide in demanded your seeds instead of money, and therefore it wouldn't cost you anything, would you prefer that? Or would you prefer to pay her a decent amount?

It sounds okay in my head, but, I do realize that most men might prefer paying any girl than giving his seeds (and have no responsibilities with the baby, this is a donation)

But, will I scare him away by offering this as an option of "payment" ?

How would y'all react?