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I'm not. I hate people. They're needy, fake, attention seeking, insecure, co dependent and believe their problems are your problems.

I see many who aren’t focused on their partner but rather others who are around them. For example a person looking at me while expressing their (fake) interest in another person. Clearly, you care more about my presence than being turned on or excited to see whoever you’re using to incite jealousy. It’s even more laughable when that is a lesbian looking at me. It’s obvious these 🏳️‍🌈 are more interested in me because I completely forget who’s watching when I like a man.

A gay man 🏳️‍🌈 is also more likely to enjoy the BDSM aspect of his relationship with another girl by encouraging jealousy in me instead of actually focusing on that girl. Normal heterosexual behaviour has lost appeal for these 🌈🏳️‍🌈

According to an article written by Katya Koval, several men stated that they no longer approach women due to the following:

“Women want to be approached. But if you approach them and they don’t like you or think you’re attractive enough, you will be called a creep.” — Jake.

Roberto, 42 years old and single, was asked why he didn’t dare approach women. He replied, “I have never gotten a clear signal from a woman. My female friends have pointed out positive body language as signals, but they are too ambiguous for me to act on.”

Kane, 35 years old and single, shares, “I don’t approach women anymore because it’s too tedious with little chance of payoff. It’s either they ignore you, reject you, shame you, or, worse, accuse you of molestation. If a woman likes me, she should make an effort to approach me.”

Mel, 29 years old, shares, “Women demanding men to chase them while they never approach men themselves is what you could call ‘entitlement.’ I don’t mean that women should start asking men out, but just approaching us to talk would be nice. For women who want equality: If he doesn’t approach you, approach him.”

Evi, 23 years old, claims “It’s easier to get women and land a date online than cold approaching them. I’m currently in College and our campus consists of 80% women. It’s not necessary to approach women anymore.”

Nathan, 22 years old, admits, “It’s mainly the negative consequences that’s stopping me. It’s scary when you hear stories about guys and fake accusations on campus. I worked hard to get into College. I’m not going to risk getting expelled for something I didn’t do.”

katya-koval.medium.com/why-men-dont-approach-women-anymore-159975861c08