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So I haven’t been official with my boyfriend for very long but he’s number one Snapchat best friends with the girl he was with before me.

To preface, I was told he liked me about 6 months ago but he never did anything about it. We were on and off number one snapchat best friends for months but he kept losing the heart and I got off the app because of it.

We were also texting for months and finally he asked me out. Come to find out he asked me out a week after the girl went back to school and was planning to hang out with her that weekend!

A few weeks go by and she asks him to make it official but he said no. We were consistently dating at this point. However, even after we were official she was his number one best friend.

I got really upset and he blocked her with no hesitation, but I still feel like he’s only using me as a placeholder. He keeps saying that’s obviously not true because he chose to be official with me and not her, but I don’t like how he had to wait to ask me out until she left. And I don’t like how they kept talking until it turned into a fight.

I don’t have any reason not to trust him as of now other than that, but my self esteem is still sort of in shambles.

What do you all think?

The same girl in my HS hates me for the longest. We're now HS seniors.

Ever since 7th grade, she would start with her rude remarks, spread false rumors, ridicule me in the class and her group of friends would isolate me. It got to the point, she literally wanted to fight me. I only replied back with a punch once. We were threatened with a suspension, she starts crying, fakes an apology and supposedly that was it. Nope, she proceeded to faking a friendship just to avoid trouble, along with giving me a fake number and fake address.

By the following year, she would continue with the rude comments or scream ''OMG or EWWW'' in disgust. I had enough and just recently told her ''OMG nothing, you got a problem with me again, we can fix this right now and this time I don't give a damn if I we get suspended. In fact I'm looking forward for it. And don't be crying crocodile tears.'' She said nothing but walked away.

Honestly, can our gender be worse bullies than guys? If this was between guys, they fight, get it solved and that's it. Either they become friends or ignored each other but at least have some level of respect. They go on into faking friendships nor apologies. She kept going on with that hate for 5 years and we're nearly adults by now.