Why did he block after 9 days of no contact?

[Anonymous]

my ex boyfriend that I dated for 4 years and I broke up 9 days ago. He would always try to break up for any argument he didn’t like happened couple times and I would beg and he would be like ok we can work it out but basically I always reached out and tried for us. This time around no way, I was at my wits end. He wanted to break up after a fight and I begged a bit and then said alright fuck it go. I stopped calling , texting and pleading and went ghost WHICH I HAVE NEVER DONE BEFORE. I noticed today through another IG account that I have (which he knows) he got back on to instagram after being off of it for a year and got on and blocked my other account. Found it like hm ok I haven’t bothered you and I left you alone what’s the deal? Thoughts? I don't know if he blocked my number because I’m not reaching out to find out

Updates

4 mo

The account he blocked was a business account for my dad wasn’t even anything I post on so he wouldn’t see any of my personal life. He just knew I would look on his account through it in the past

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that is super weird of him to block you after all this time of no contact. A few things it could mean:

- He's still hurt and angry about the breakup, even if he was the one who wanted to end it initially. The blocking is like his way of fully closing that chapter.

- He might be messed up that YOU didn't come begging this time like usual. It goes against what he expected so now he's lashing out by blocking.

- Possible he's trying to make you chase him again by creating drama. He wants to see if you'll reach back out now or keep up the no contact.

- Could be seeing someone new and doesn't want you creeping his socials now. Trying to shut the door on you for good.

My advice - don't dwell on it too much. You held strong doing your own thing these past days and that's all you can do. If he wants to be immature and block, let him. Show you don't care what silly games he plays. Stay focused on you and keep it pushing. His loss!

[Anonymous]

Because he's your ex.