What should I do? Did I cheat?

[aaliyaaaaaaaaah]

I started dating my boyfriend earlier this year and it was the first relationship for both of us. We got into a lot of fights and as he has anger issues, he was very vulgar with words which affected me. My friends supported but then wanted me to let go of him but I really loved him and hence tolerated everything he did. He planked me about cheating 2 months into the relationship yet I forgave him. He hurt me with words almost everyday for 6 months straight. Everything changed when my close relative died and I was so hurt mentally. My family had a lot of issues and my boyfriend was hurting me a lot. As we are from different religions, he commented on it and asked me to sleep with guys from my religion for my parents happiness 3 days after my relative had passed away. We broke up and since that day he claimed to wanting to win me back but was still rude to me everyday and called me names like “egoistic”, “self cantered”. It went on and on until a point where I couldn’t take it any, ore, I got really mad and I installed bumble about which he got to know. I had it for 2 days and didn’t flirt with any guy but he calls it cheating. I also lied to him about the ownership of the account a few times which hurt him. Now he calls me a cheater and a liar but I lied only because I was scared to tell him about the account, I never met with anyone or even flirt with anyone let alone cheat and I wasn’t even with my boyfriend that time. He doesn’t seem to understand my pov and it hurts, he still disrespects me till date. What should I be doing?

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*pranked, sorry if there are typos

[petitedollbabee]

You were already broken up. You didn’t cheat. And as for what should you do? You should get the hell away from him. He sounds like a true piece of work, and not the good kind. Block him on any platform that he can contact you from and move on. He’s going to be the type of person to accuse you of all sorts of things, and try to hurt you so that your self esteem will become low enough for you to go back to him. Don’t let it happen.

[Al_Musafir]

Everything she typed was clearly so bad. How can one be so open to let themselves get treated this way anyway?

[petitedollbabee]

Sadly common sense is not so common.

[Al_Musafir]

This feels like more of self hatred. I have seen messed up questions here (some obvious trolls) but this situation is clearly screaming 'leave asap' right after the second sentence of the question description.

[petitedollbabee]

It was her first relationship, I think we all make mistakes with our first. We don’t always know what’s healthy and what’s toxic, even when it’s staring us right in the face. So I would say that it seems like self hatred, but possibly more so just lack of self esteem and being unaware of how truly horrible he was towards her. But I 100% agree with the rest of your comment.

[petitedollbabee]

Wouldn’t say that it seems like self hatred*

[Al_Musafir]

I might agree to sublte gaslighting and accusations of cheating that could make a person conflicted with reality. But clearly, being vulgar and asking to sleep with other men after already negatively accusing her of cheating... I don't know what kind of state of mind would make you blind to not see that. I have seen people do mistakes in their first relationships but this is clearly something next level.

[aaliyaaaaaaaaah]

@Al_Musafir no I thought I’d make him understand what he was doing wrong

[aaliyaaaaaaaaah]

@Al_Musafir no he pranked me that he cheated months ago for fun but that hurt me very badly. Now he’s accusing me of cheating for installing bumble

[beautyjoyfover200]

Block and leave him alone, he has disrespected you multiple times in every way he’s not worth it for you.

Also how to do prank someone of cheating?

[Al_Musafir]

What a sick and disrespectful situation with weird obsessions. Leave him for your own good.

[Saiesh30]

Leave him. He's a jerk