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That black people are impoverished not because socioeconomics, racism etc but because they blow every penny they get on overpriced consumer products, take loans they can't afford and don't save or invest for their future all to look like a baller.

In 2022 the black spending power hit a whooping 1.6 Trillion dollars? How much of that was spent Nike Jordans? 1 billion? How much spent on nails and hair extensions? On Mercedes? How much they spending paying the intrest payments on loans?

It's not that they are spending our money outside the black community that's the problem, it's that they spending it foolishly on crap they don't need rather than investing it in their own futures. Black Spending Power is just a pharse media people and community activists coined to make it sound like they oppressed but we got somehow got power due to how much money they blow each year. Nobody talks about white spending power or Asian spending power or jewish spending power, why? Because they save their money, they invest they money in bonds and shares, they get themselves mortgages rather than pay somebody else's mortgage with rent checks. You see a white guy or Asian guy he not spending $300 dollars on the latest Nikes made in a 3rd world country for a dollar, he might be driving a busted old Honda even though he making good money because he trying to get together the down payment on a house or start a business or get enough money to go to college. White women don't be spending $2000 per month on hair and nails. Asian people be pushing their kid's to do well at school and college.

They gotta look back and ask why all through segregation and Jim crow was the black community more prosperous then than now?

If you watch commercials now they are all aimed at black folks especially ones regarding loans.

There’s this one guy I think is so cute, but I’m worried he’ll think I’m weird if I make the first move and tell him I want to get to know him more. He’s a goalie, and I don’t think he talks to many other girls but I’m not sure and I don’t want to just be another one of his chicks, I want something kinda serious.

He’s also around 2 years younger than me, so I’m not sure if he’ll think that’s weird or not. I planned on messaging him and telling him I’m interested and that I don’t usually message guys and tell them I’m interested, so he won’t think I’m just being a slut or anything, but will he think I’m weird for making the first move? ALSO SOMEBODY let me know if this is a sign we’ve made eye contact multiple times.

I've been there… we have all said it..

“I don’t need no man!”
Maybe we got hurt, want to focus on our goals, or have just been discouraged by the dating pool recently. However, we shouldn’t make the mistake that toxic feminism is making that men are now the most inferior thing on the planet. We need them and they need us. The least we can do is not over generalize and throw every man under the bus.

1. When was the last time you complimented a man for a healthy masculine quality?

2. When was the last time you allowed a man to practice chivalry or leadership instead of barging ahead to “prove yourself”?

3. When was the last time you held back talking about a man behind his back to respect him?

I know I’ve been prideful at times. Maybe you have been too. Let’s not let that control our feminine strengths of compassion, empathy, and nurturing others to their full potential. What do you think?