What do men think they’ll achieve with catcalling, honking and making girls uncomfortable?

[chocolatetwopointo]

even when we’ve said multiple times that we dont like it and it makes us uncomfortable, yet they dont stop.

[MrOracle]

Believe it or not, some women like catcalling, even if they don't want the guy doing it. They like the validation they get from it. And though it's not as common, if the girl finds the guy catcalling her hot, she will often respond very favorably.

That said, most of the time, the guy knows that he's never going to get the girl, but just getting a reaction from her - good or bad - is all he's really after. It tells him a lot about her personality.

A girl with a great personality might smile and maybe even say "Hi, boys." implied is "you can look, but you can't touch." Nothing more will come of it, but it makes everyone's day a bit better. And a girl with a bad personality may be snarky or scream insults, which will be returned in kind, and the guys will enjoy annoying that kind of girl. Either way, the guy has a good story to share that day.

That said, catcalling is happening a lot less today, and TikTok is full of videos from women who, even if they didn't really like it are upset that they aren't getting that attention anymore. The truth is that most women crave male attention and feel validated by it, even when they aren't attracted to the man it's coming from. They often say otherwise, but they miss it when it's gone.

[Kingofkings1992]

Those women would be very far and few between. I’d say it’s safe to say that 99% of women don’t like it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u think, that bc the majority of women DONT like it, then its okay to catcall?

[overlord337645]

I can see your point but I can also see girls tend to be more emotional for instance my friend who is female says i hate you when she is mad and later tells me she dosent hate me and she is sorry she just gets emotional so yea I agree guys could do better on some fronts but I also can say girls we have next to no insight into keeping in mind its our job to chase you if we wanna go out if you chase us it just looks needy so in conclusion I see where you are coming from and that must be hard but then again im not sure you see the guys perspective of it easier and the same goes for some men others well other men are just people who need to control others but then again that applies to a lot of men and women

[chocolatetwopointo]

nobodys forcing u to chase us? and catcalling is js making girls uncomfortable

[overlord337645]

if we did not chase you we would not get you now catcalling i cannot say thats good but i can say we gotta try somehow and girls dont exactly come out and say hey im ok with x y z wanna chase me

[chocolatetwopointo]

then dont get her?💀 no u dont? making a stranger uncomfortable is never okay?

[overlord337645]

your right its not I guess I am just asking how would you prefer we approach women

[chocolatetwopointo]

rather not, but if u were, in a respectful manner.

[overlord337645]

your point is good but also kind of vauge can you elaborate that way people myself included can get some better insight and not to sound rude but I ask cause men are pretty clueless sometimes when it comes to women

[chocolatetwopointo]

whats there to elaborate, if ur gonna ask a woman out be respectful and dont kill her when she says no, thats all we ask for.

[overlord337645]

respectful is differently interpreted by everyone i got a freind that says its respectful to take your shoes off in the house meanwhile id say whatever in mine

[chocolatetwopointo]

I don't know maybe dont say ”hey sexy wanna sleep with me?” and its respectful to take ur shoes off in the house, thats common sense. why would u want everything you’ve stepped in on ur floors?

[overlord337645]

so what your saying is you want all guys to be more respecful with women? I understand your point I am just not sure if your generalizeing all men into this category or just a few although I do agree that behavior is... not a good way to get women to be around you or wanna date you. on a final note my main point here is it sounds like your justifying that all men act this way and while I think its great you want this from some men mabie be more specific specifically because it sounds targeted or personal or that you do not think men are capable and alike women are of doing stuff men are to

[chocolatetwopointo]

it can't be that fucking hard. i would want ALL men to be respectful, but most aren't.

[overlord337645]

not gonna lie i can relate there i feel your pain in that respect anyways that some men are total jerks but i promise not all men are that way and for the record not all men try either that or they really good actors although i do agree men should be more respectful to women (certain men not all cause some are pretty respectful even if they are hard to find)

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[overlord337645]

im not gonna pry but im guessing your sick of men harrassing you all the time... I just wanted to say please dont judge us all by what a lot of us are like who knows mabie some men just need a woman in there life to shape them into something less like a jerk and make them more insightful and thoughtful before they act

[chocolatetwopointo]

we shouldn't have to teach men how to be respectful. we’re not their moms.

[overlord337645]

your not but if you dont stand up for yourself and tell those men exactly what you dont like in them some other poor women will go through the same thing and you know your right they are jerks who can't take no but at least you feel better for the next person they cross

[chocolatetwopointo]

you do know other times when women have stood up from men harrassing them they’ve ended up dead, yk that?

[overlord337645]

so just so i understand what your saying is you wanna complain all day long about men but dont wanna fix the problem pardon me if i seem harsh but you dont get rich by sitting around on your couch very much alike you dont earn respect from someone by getting pushed around until you decide to leave

[overlord337645]

i do belive your right men are not always nice then again why would they be if they see a woman who gets treated like garbage leave and act like its normal

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg. i just fucking told u women get killed for standing up for that. do you know how it feels like to have no power? i know how it feels like. its bc of fear. i shouldn't have to be scared to stand up from horrible men like u.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what are u on about? wtf r u saying? ur grammar is awful, fym with ur second reply?

[overlord337645]

again your really generalizeing that all guys are this way and you know what its ok to think that about some guys but some men truly just want the best for women all my freinds are female so I can understand from the perspective of knowing someone with that problem what that feels like. I am gonna be honest this is what makes guys total assholes pardon my language if you will or dont but men dont exactly care for being stereotyped anymore than a woman does to be hurt or abused let me tell you girls are not always clear with what they want I have had this before and the truth is most women won't say anything and you know what if your with a guy that you think might kill you over you saying something you might need to rethink your ideals in life man or woman God made everyone special the sad part is some men and women dont know how to act right and im sorry for those people that are the victims of it its not there fault but stereotypeing men is not ok unless we wanna say that because some women and men have sex with randoms every other night all women and men do and i promise you thats not true either. the truth is you know nothing about me your acting like you do based on passed experiences and I don't know what happened but i truly am sorry however it does not make it ok to act like im a problem to so ima finish by just saying it outright. if a woman has a problem with me she can tell me to my face if not im sorry she feels bad but thats her own fault for not saying anything thats just me tho other guys might be different but thats where I stand and will always stand for you and anyone else i meet because others feelings are important to me even if they dont always think so

[overlord337645]

and your right i dont agree with catcalling anymore than you do yet i dislike the generalization. truth is its not a surprise why more and more people are going to ai chatbots they get scared off because people tell them to go the hell away and you know what mabie there is good reason but a lot of times the first time i talk to someone i get a snarky response thats just downright rude so truthfully mabie men are becomeing like women if a women dosent want you round and tells you rudely a guy might act rude to avoid dealing with women kind of like a sick tradeoff but now that i think about this it makes sense ig

[chocolatetwopointo]

OMFG. im not generalising when im saying women are scared of standing up bc men have killed and raped women who stand up for themselves. how are we supposted to know who will and who won't rape us? tell me that. exactly, bc we fucking can't. and thats why we need to be afraid of all of them, bc y'all r so fucked.
what the actual fuck r u on ab?

[Screenwriter]

Catcalling and honking obnoxiously is an intimidation method utilized by immature and insecure men.

It's used to objectify women and "keep them in their place" as sexual objects. It's used by men who only see women as walking vaginas, servants, baby machines.

You can be unreactive and ignore it, or catcall back. Your choice. I'd choose to ignore it because these kinds of fools and apes WANT a reaction more than anything. And they're the kinds of simps who probably can't get anywhere in the woman-man market.

Guys who are successful with women don't need to intimidate or objectify them, or make themselves appear like animals. It's a sad testatment to who these guys are and how they live..

[WhitneySnow]

They want to express their feelings about how hot the girls walking by are and they want to bond with the guys they hang with by doing this. I think most of them are smart enough to know that this is not an effective way of picking up girls. They do it to express their horniness and bond with their mates. That being said, I think catcalling is disgusting.

[TheorionMage]

[chocolatetwopointo]

whats ur point?

[TheorionMage]

Either deliberately or subconsciously, few people deliberately choose to dress 'un-attractive'-ly. The visual 'inclination' for MOST humans forms the FIRST 'impression' laying the groundwork for the audience's response. 'Cat calling' is the frank, if indelicate public display of powerful gender 'affect'. When you go fishing... what your bait attracts is only PARTLY your choice~

[Account]

It is a statement of power thing. It has never been about flirting, they don't expect to gain anything from it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yes, and it's VERY d-baggy !!!

[Finchie40]

I think catcalling happens more when they are with their friends’ showing off and trying to be funny , Females’ catcall as well when they are with their friends’ so it can go both ways , , I was just catcalled by a group of girls’ that were driving by my house as I was taking my trash out to the curb , They were screaming Hey sexy , what you doing tonight , I just smiled and waved them to come back because the one girl caught my eye lol they didn’t come back but i still smiled and took it as a compliment , To be honest some people don’t mind being catcalled if the person that is catcalling is attractive to their eyes , People only get creeped out if the person isn’t attractive to their eyes So it’s a 50/50 chance and that’s why people still catcall

[chocolatetwopointo]

def not as much as men do. we both know that. sorry that happened to u.

well women dont like being catcalled, dont expect them to like it. nope. attractive men catcall too and its js as disgusting stop making excuses for being a disgusting perv.

[Finchie40]

I don’t cat call , i have catcalled when I was younger and with friends’ but I am passed that immature phase in life, If I see a beautiful girl nowadays i will just walk up to her and introduce myself or give her a nice compliment without coming off creepy , that seems to be working for me , Girls’ also approach me as well , so it goes both ways , the only girls’ that catcall me are with their friends’ being silly and funny , I don’t get creeped out about it because I know they are just having fun. When I use
To catcall , some girls’ loved it and came over to talk to me , so again it’s a 50/50 chance. Everyone is different when it comes to catcalling , a girl shouldn’t be creeped out by it because it’s actually a compliment that they guy finds her absolutely beautiful, she is only creeped out of the guy is creepy looking , but if he is attractive, she is all about it lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhm. no its not. majority dont like it. if the guy found her attractive he wouldn't be embarrassing her. nope, I've been catcalled by old, young, ugly and handsome men, hated all of it. js as creeped out all times.

[Starredup]

It’s a guy thing normally. A few guys together showing off is common. Male bonding. Thankfully, I’ve not been around it too much anymore but I’m older now. I honestly never understood it but there are women that strangely like it but it seems rare.

Having been around guys like this, they know they have no chance with the girl that they find attractive so they act like idiots embarrassing anyone in the vicinity as a way of getting back at them in some form. Mostly though, it’s typical show off bonding as embarrassing as that is.

[chocolatetwopointo]

we’re not normalising this if u think we r

[Starredup]

I’m not saying it’s acceptable but it’s often one reason why guys do it. They always have and likely always will. It’s stupid, rude and highly immature but it’s sadly a guy thing as in something some do. As a guy, one would know.
For others, there naturally may be other reasons. Whereas I’ve never done it, many do. That’s all.

[mattthefatbat]

Based on absolute guessing because im not the kind of guy to ever cat call. I guess to tease and want to get the woman to flirt back. Some guys are just more obnoxious than others its just how they choose to live their life, and they probably do it because it gave them some success with some women before.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet they know we dont like it and it makes us uncomfortable?

[mattthefatbat]

I think this catcalling trope of some tall, handsome man swooning a woman to be with him is a common trope in some female written romance novels.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no

[Sunrising]

No cat calling from me 🙂

Females need to show the men what strong ladies you are, and demonstrate you are above all their little boy games. And if they find the ladies attractive they should act in the correct manner, if they dare, instead of being anonymous.

[chocolatetwopointo]

want a reward?

[Sunrising]

A pointo might be nice.

[DonaldDarko]

In this day and age I can't imagine. Generally a 21st century woman isn't really like what you would think of as a woman. Her mind is twisted by modernity she's some kind of monstrous take on a woman. The elements are there but it's all wrong somehow like something from a horror movie.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet I've been catcalled 5 times since i was 11.

[DonaldDarko]

Men make up most of the prison population as well. I'm more for transhumanism. Traditionalism is barking up the wrong tree. We need to improve humanity or nothing will change. Even if you got rid of all the men overnight. Women would still be attacking each other viciously. We should be working furiously on improving humanity.

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure but more women would be alive and not abused etc

[DonaldDarko]

It would be an improvement but it would only improve it so far. Also they wouldn't be around for long as they couldn't reproduce.

[andreasderjuengere]

Please don't think that certain stereotypical women's behaviour does not make us men uncomfortable as well.

In each case (both sides) it's an uneducated or thoughtless 'action'.

Yes - it's disturbing. But we need to share this planet with the more primitive ones among us; if we like it, or not.

''They'' achieve nothing - unless they address to a similarly primitive woman-human.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well im not talking ab men rn am i?

[andreasderjuengere]

What does this mean when it's embedded in a complete sentence, please?

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not talking ab men being victims. if u wanna talk ab it u can make ur own question.

[andreasderjuengere]

I thought that you were interested in the bigger picture. Sorry for misunderstanding your restricted visions.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im really not

[andreasderjuengere]

Indeed, you aren't. Sorry disturbing.

[4ngelic]

a lot of them only want to make women feel uncomfortable, they're not expecting them to actually give them sex. the ones that actually want something from it are just clueless and badly educated. they believe that eventually it will work for them so they keep doing it.

[Anonymous]

Unless a man is tall, super handsome, or hot and does that standing next to a Ferrari, the chances of a female caring are slim to none. Why do males do it? I have no idea. I did it once when I was an immature teenager. I was in the car with my guy friend at a stoplight, and I saw an attractive girl on the side so I shouted YOOO! and I ducked down in the car. That was the only time I did it.

[Opinion Owner]

What is disgusting? What I did? Listen, as a guy I did that one time. I’ve been scorned, manipulated by females way more, and that’s extremely immature, I can say how can a female act that way knowing she’s toying with someone, that’s even worse then a cat call so let’s keep it 💯 and I’ve heard girls yell derogatory comments to guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you a complete imbecile? I said that happened one time and said it was a mistake. You want to act like Miss judge online for something that happened 20 years ago? If you're that age you posted then you’re immature so grow the f up. If every guy knew a girls past, a lot of guys would reject her, I love the double standard you’re trying to pull, hypocrisy at its finest, friggin idiot,”.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u dont do that as a mistake. ur disgusting. what past and what girl r u talking ab retard?

[Kingofkings1992]

It’s not to achieve anything, it’s just immaturity, plain and simple. The men on this thread saying that some women like it are completely delusional. Sure, women like being admired, but no one likes catcalling. You can express your admiration in more mature ways. Mature men do not engage in catcalling.

[AviatorTom]

Guys aren't trying to achieve anything, other than letting the woman know that they think she's attractive... and some women like that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

the majority dont.

[AviatorTom]

@chocolatetwopointo In my experience, I'm not sure "majority" is the correct term. I've known several women who get a kick out of random guys whistling at her.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well ur experience with one woman doesn't equal 4 billion women. I've seen and heard more women say that they dont like it.

[AviatorTom]

@chocolatetwopointoIn my 50+ years, I've known many more than "one woman", most likely more than you've known in your 16 years.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and all those women said they love getting catcalled by old men? ask the 10 yr old girls who get catcalled, whistled at and honked at. ask what they think.

[AviatorTom]

@chocolatetwopointo Catcalling young girls is wrong, I'm talking about grown women

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u think catcalling older women is fine?

[Med_guy1978]

Women are used to guys staring and it becomes irritating but imagine no one looked at you or paid attention to you. No one found you attractive, that would kill the average woman who needs attention. That's why no over 60's women complain about this kind of attention.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok so catcalling is the only option? no woman likes that js stfu. and id love if no one ever gave me attention or no one found me attractive. no its bc over 60s women dont recieve it. men dont like women over 30 bffr💀

[Med_guy1978]

Just dress down, tie your hair up wear baggy clothes and no one will whistle at you. I understand it's irritating for some girls, I dunno... It doesn't happen everywhere. In Serbia I've rarely seen it... If it was me I'd drop a comment and if she reacted positively I'd approach her.
What's wrong with a well maintained 60 year old woman? 😁 Over 30 is best, knows what she wants and is more direct. Imagine that not so attractive chick who is probably overweight, she'd be dying for a compliment.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao if u think that will stop them ur delusional. why would u drop a comment? just leave women alone wtf?
men dont like women over 30, everyone knows that. catcalling isn't a compliment, wtf is wrong with u.

[Med_guy1978]

Men meet women and likewise, if the persons are hetrosexual then they will want to get together and since the beginning of time men approached women to ask them out. So unless you're from Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan this is quite normal.

[Med_guy1978]

Most men like over 30's women, trust me.

[chocolatetwopointo]

wtf r u on ab now? u seriously think making a comment ab a girl will get her to like u? if u wanna ask a girl out dont say ”hey sexy” while honking at her, be respectful. or leave her alone. no they dont. men always say that women over 30 r starting to get wrinkles and r out of their prime. we both know men dont like women over 30s.

[Med_guy1978]

Look, you have parents and they met somehow and made you. Go ask them, that's your homework assignment for today. So one of your parents approached the other and one thing led to another and there you are.

[chocolatetwopointo]

they met at a bar, my mom asked my dad out. thats it. nothing more to it.

[Med_guy1978]

There you go, nice and easy. Romantic, fun, straight to the point. A win win for everyone 🥰

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah, but whats that got to do with anything?

[Med_guy1978]

Didn't you say men should leave women alone?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah? as i said, my mom asked my dad out.

[strateguy632]

They all know they won't "achieve " anything, just from a safe distance he was giving a compliment.

What are you uncomfortable for? From a safe distance? Chill out.

[LiverOfLife]

They will give the woman what she's seeking - attention.

[chocolatetwopointo]

she's not tho.

[Cutekity]

Definitely not seeking attention.

[Apple1996]

Those men are just wanting power, control and to humiliate women

[Sam1133]

But maam girls love to get humiliated on bed. No?

[chocolatetwopointo]

no we dont, and as u said ”in bed” there's ur answer

[Sam1133]

Little girl it's adult talks you please stay out of it...
You go do study.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no

[Sam1133]

😂😂

[chocolatetwopointo]

exactly

[Sam1133]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

proved my point. got no other arguments?

[jshm2]

They want to make you uncomfortable, as it makes them comfortable.

Seems you don't understand how intimidation works,

[chocolatetwopointo]

aren't they supposted to be the ones caring and protecting us? yet they’re treating us like this?

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not sure that they think they'll achieve anything... It's not something they do to appeal to the woman. They're showing off their bravado for the other guys.

[Julie4]

They hope we'll fall madly in love. I'd be curious to know if this technique has ever worked. 😂😂

[RingOfFire]

It's not that at all... it's more about having fun with the guys. A fun distraction.

[chrissykerdock]

when i wear a miniskirt i get catcalled and looked at

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[LazerBean]

If you moved out of the ghetto then it wouldn't be a problem, only ghetto males do that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont live in the ghetto.

[Kingofkings1992]

That’s definitely not true

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah it is

[Kingofkings1992]

I was talking to Lazerbean you idiot

[chocolatetwopointo]

how was i supposted to know?

[Kingofkings1992]

Because it was on her opinion, and I never tagged you dummy

[chocolatetwopointo]

then u should’ve tagged her🤷‍♀️ ur on my question, my question my rules

[Kingofkings1992]

Your stupidity, your problem 🤷‍♂️

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao stay mad

[Kingofkings1992]

I’m not mad, I’m just correcting your mistake and pointing out your stupid logic, but nice try kid 😆

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhm riight, js stay mad

[Kingofkings1992]

Gotta get the last word in huh? Again, putting your immaturity on full display lmao 🤣

[chocolatetwopointo]

says who?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

showing off how thirsty they are.

but dont lie. you wouldn't feel so uncomfortable if it was Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise catcalling you

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes i would, i hate men

[Filthy_Immigrant]

yet you said you would love to be born as one in someone elses mytake

[chocolatetwopointo]

well yeah? bc they have it so easy? i wouldn't be a dick like u tho

[Filthy_Immigrant]

and how do we have it easier?

[chocolatetwopointo]

do i seriously have to say this to u?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I take that as "you're right, I can't answer your question because I can't back up my own statement!"

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u seriously think men dont have it easy?💀 ok. women get raped more, women r more likely to be killed by a partner, women have to go through periods, birth and menopause while y'all have to go through NOTHING. and ik ur argument will be ”men kill themselves the most” and u wanna know why? many of those men r gay men etc that get shamed by other men for being gay then they take their own lives, need more?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

man you been watching too many Gaspar Noe movies. anyways dismissing the very real challenges men face isn’t helpful or accurate. Yes, women experience serious issues like sexual violence and inequality—those deserve attention. But men face different, equally real struggles that also need to be addressed.

Men account for nearly 80% of suicides worldwide—and it's not just about being shamed for being gay. It's about untreated depression, stigma around expressing emotions, lack of support systems, and societal pressure to 'man up' and stay silent.

Men are also victims of rape and domestic violence, but they’re often ignored or laughed at for speaking out. That stigma silences them.

In family courts, many fathers lose custody even when they’re fit parents, and boys are falling behind in education systems that don’t account for their needs.

Men are more likely to be homeless, die on the job, or suffer from untreated mental and physical health issues.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and who set that system up? women aren't the ones telling u to man up.

about the family court, its bc little girls get abused and sexually abused by men in their family more often than u think. when men gain the trust they have the right to complain. and ab education thats for everyone with a disability.

and once again, who set that system up?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

both men and women can reinforce harmful norms. The ‘man up’ mentality is part of a broader cultural expectation that’s been built over generations by both men and women. Boys are taught to be tough, suppress emotions, and never show weakness—not just by dads, but by moms, teachers, peers, media, and society at large.

Family courts absolutely need to protect children, and abuse is horrific in any form. But generalizing that most men in custody cases are abusers is dangerous and unfair. Most fathers are loving, responsible parents who just want to stay involved in their children’s lives. The system often doesn’t give them a fair shot.

As for education, the issue isn’t just about disabilities. Boys across many countries are underperforming, dropping out more, and facing disciplinary action at higher rates. These aren’t just edge cases—they’re widespread patterns that need serious attention.

We can and should protect girls and women from violence and harm—but we also need to be honest about where the system fails men. It’s not a zero-sum game. Talking about men’s issues doesn’t erase women’s struggles. It just means we care about everyone’s wellbeing.

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure but mostly men.

blame the pedos and rapists. not us. we dont know who to trust. make urself trustworthy. yeah sure, but as i said we can't know.

and why do u think that is?

sure, this is why i said women have it HARDER.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

you talk like rape is a common thing. and I'm sorry to burst your fictional bubble but dude women can rape and be pedophiles too

oh and we men have it just as hard for the fact that women cry rape all the time. even when they consented the night before crying it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

it literally is common? when did i say they couldnt exactly?

wahwahwah. u clearly dont care and dont know what rape is so u have no right to say ”men also get raped”. you’d be the type to shame victims

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Saying ‘men also get raped’ doesn’t negate female victims—it simply acknowledges a truth that’s often ignored. If you think recognizing male suffering equals victim-shaming, that says more about your bias than my intent. Victimhood isn't gender-exclusive, and empathy shouldn’t be either

[chocolatetwopointo]

im simply saying ur trying to belittle female victims by saying men get raped too like female victims aren't special in a way

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Are you projecting?

You’re doing the same exact thing

[chocolatetwopointo]

in what world is this projecting?

[Miristheiss]

LOL.

First world problems.

I do not think this is even a thing anymore.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ofc said by a man. I've been catcalled ab 5 times now, since i was 11.

[Miristheiss]

And you are still alive?
Wow.
How did you survive?
Car called? Who gives a shit.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and once again, ofc it was said by a man. but ill get shit if i say men have no real issues in life.

[Miristheiss]

Because it is not a real problem.
Just your hypersensitive feelings.
Someone whistled.
Ok... and?
You went on your way and he went back to work.
I reject your premise that this is some huge issue.
How are you harmed?
I guess they think you look attractive. What a travesty.
Your heart is black though.

[chocolatetwopointo]

it is tho.
men assulting and catcalling little girls is a problem. making people feel unsafe is a problem and making them feel uncomfortable is a problem. if someone whistled i wouldn't care, but if someone whistled at me i would care.
ah yes OLD men liking a minor, ur definetly one of them.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what if it was ur daughter?

[Bricealan]

@chocolatetwopointo The morons usually do that kind of 'stupid' when with other guys, and they think it makes them look Macho"

[SotiCoto]

Nothing. They're not thinking.
And the vast majority of men who do NOT do that have to suffer the consequences incurrect by a few very noisy idiots.

[katiesmuff]

Some are just too dense to get the message! Many are running our government at the moment!

[ChooChooHaha]

I wonder the same thing what is their dream scenario?

[Hellraiser1984]

That's usually the a hole type. I've never done that and never will. Good way to get a harassment charge.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay?

[DrPepper12]

It's a fucked up compliment that has impossible odds of succeding

[AngryCarl2]

It's not designed to achieve anything, it's the result of poor impulse control.

[BDRick]

It’s an old move, used by construction work workers back in the day. It means nothing anymore besides just fitting the part.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I used to do it just to play with them. Nothing serious.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u used to play with strangers?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A hunk isn't a big deal.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes it is?

[audreyrogers]

I think they just know that they cannot normally approach and "get" those girls so making them uncomfortable brings some kind of attention to them

[Anonymous]

the point is, they hope to be getting
lucky in seconds
assuming the girl is that easy or
they think they're that smooth

[Jackblue]

They are really acting on emotion rather than reason.

[Smegskull]

We stopped listening to what women say and swapped to listening to what women do ages ago. Otherwise the species would have gone extinct.

[Anonymous]

No idea

I don't associate with such men and I don't associate with women full stop (far safer these days)

[Anonymous]

It's mostly to seem funny in front of their friends. I don't think any logical, respectable guy would catcall.

[RingOfFire]

Exactly!

[Anonymous]

Nothing but sometimes when I see a very beautiful woman I do make her a compliment on the street.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[Opinion Owner]

Your dress makes you look like a beautiful gracefull queen from times past

[Opinion Owner]

I just can't help it sometimes, some women vibrate so much beauty I must compliment them

[chocolatetwopointo]

u dont need to compliment them

[Opinion Owner]

actually I do

[chocolatetwopointo]

u dont

[Opinion Owner]

yes i do, stop it punk

[chocolatetwopointo]

no u dont

[Opinion Owner]

yes I actually very much do its in male instinct, but you can't understand

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope. u can feel stuff, but nobodys forcing u to act on them.

[Opinion Owner]

you obviously have no clue what passion is.

[chocolatetwopointo]

do u seriously see no problem with this? thats exactly what rapists say. js leave women the fuck alone u creep.

[Opinion Owner]

maybe you have some mental problems, most women thanked me for the compliments

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont care. ur reasoning is the problem. ”its passion” thats EXACTLY what rapists say.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats what lovers say also... and many other people like artists etc... so maybe you just have a really ill point of view.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah but not about strangers.

[Opinion Owner]

doesn't matter, a woman beauty can be impressing sometimes, but probably most ugly women can't know that

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay, all im saying is nobodys forcing u to go up to them and compliment them

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed but I am doing it because I admire their beauty to a point that I need to express the admiration throgh words.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no need to

[Opinion Owner]

It is only your opinion and I strongly disagree with it and with your point of view and if you can believe it... I will keep on doing it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ah yes and how many women do u think you’ve left feeling uncomfortable? my guess is a couple. they js dont show it. js show respect and leave them alone.

[Opinion Owner]

well pretty much none, actually they smile and thank me. I wish I would take advice from a 16 years old that has no knowledge about life at all, sounds... like something I would never really do. You just have your own ideeas living in imaginary world.

[chocolatetwopointo]

”they js dont show it”

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc women are scared of men.

[Opinion Owner]

you are really too young to have an opinion. you really dont know anything about life, barely scratching it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure but i am a woman that has been through this, you aren't.

[Opinion Owner]

you are not a woman, you are a kid.

[chocolatetwopointo]

even worse. im a kid thats been through this, you aren't.

[Opinion Owner]

The time I lived with women accumulates in more then your lifetime... so it has no relevance. You are probably a troll, big one.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and here he goes..

[Opinion Owner]

YOu must have a big frustration on the inside to keep on trolling on here. You got cat called, get over it, life doesn't stop there.

[chocolatetwopointo]

oh yes cuz we should normalise kids getting catcalled, is that what ur saying?

[Opinion Owner]

Dont put words in my mouth, I was speaking about women being complimented, nrah you are just too stupid for a normal conversation and.. no doubt you should be in school not here

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not talking ab compliments tho, im talking ab catcalling.

[Anonymous]

I wonder the same, I never do that, I'm too shy.

[Anonymous]

Women love it. They just don't want to admit it. 😉

[snowboarder720]

I think the baby boomer men are delusional and they just don’t want to admit it.

[robocop666]

they are unaware that it is a numbers game and only 1 in a million will work.

[MaxW1]

its dumb trying to understand stupid

[chocolatetwopointo]

what?

[alice55]

I guess they do it without thinking

[chocolatetwopointo]

why?

[Agape93]

The goal is usually to actually scare you.

[Shortkay4568]

I generally just ignore those calls. B. S

[fish5505_87]

I could never figure this out. 🤔

[ThatCanucker]

Uhh I don't... never done that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? u want a medal or smth? ur not special?

[LiamJHayden]

Good question.

[Godihateyou]

Hopefully making them uncomfortable. Fuck women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

”age 43”

[Godihateyou]

Age 16. And banned

[chocolatetwopointo]

ur on every single one of my questions bro, get a life💀

[beefcakebradybatson]

How should I know? I never do it.

[wkhan_87]

Yes , that's immoral.

[TheAutarch]

Not sure, I don't assume it works very often.

[Jamie05rhs]

Call the police.

[chocolatetwopointo]

its technically not illegal sadly

[Jamie05rhs]

It is illegal, actually. You're 16. So they are breaking the law.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what law?