Should I tell my boyfriend that him constantly saying he is questioning paternity hurts my feelings?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently 9 months pregnant and awaiting my baby any day. My boyfriend has been a very loving and supportive partner throughout the experience making this pregnancy as easy as it could be for a girl to go through despite all the complications that come with pregnancy. I love him and have been completely faithful to him which I feel he should know. He seems like he trusts me but he made a remark a while ago that his mom advised him to get a DNA test. I was surprised because his mom seems to love me and I really like her as well. I find it a little disrespectful especially since he claims he doesn't have a doubt that it's his baby but I just said "okay go ahead and get it if that's what you want." I have nothing to hide and I before I even met him I did have a belief that a man should have a choice to get a DNA test without obstruction regardless of how it makes the woman feel because having confirmation is important. So even though I disliked the implication of what a "just in case" DNA test says about his trust for me I didn't put up any argument on the matter. And I even cracked a joke (but I was serious too) that if it's not his baby that means the baby was switched at birth which would honestly be true so it's really not a joke but I just tried to be light-hearted. Anyway, he woke up from a nightmare the other day and told me he had a dream that the baby didn't look like him and it broke his heart. I've been having very vivid dreams about meeting my baby and it's always happy dreams. I told him it's just a dream and that he would be happy once he held our baby and he nodded but he kept bringing it up throughout the morning that the nightmare felt real. I told him again that it's just a dream. I honestly think his paranoia is a little offensive and makes me sad but once the baby gets here hopefully he'll calm down and nobody is stopping him from getting a DNA test if he wants one.

[Anonymous]

Whenever a man points his finger to I dictate cheating at any capacity it’s because he is the one doing dirt. His mom allegedly planted the seed about getting a DNA test, is there any way other than his words to confirm that? Probably not and he can tell you such a lie because he knows you’d never ask her. Have you ever gotten the impression that she thought so lowly of you? I doubt that as well. There’s no good reason for him to degrade you like this and while you’re pregnant other than his own conscience and guilt.

[Opinion Owner]

Oops, that should say indicate, not I dictate

[Summeroflove]

You need to express your feelings and take a DNA test to prove it’s his child this will be helpful if he disputes it later in court. If you just can’t trust him and he can’t trust you maybe you’re better not being together obviously you’ll have to interact because of the kid but save yourself the drama.

But whether you stay with him or not yeah absolutely take the test so you don’t have to go through that bullshit.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating love's little speed bumps can be tricky, can't it? Your boy's dreams and fears are tugging at those heartstrings, but they sure can play mind games. Girl, it's totally okay to feel hurt by his doubts, but remember, dreams can be wild and don’t always reflect reality. Communication is your secret weapon, so try sharing how it makes you feel with a sprinkle of empathy. Just like falling in love, it's all about vulnerability: his fears and your feelings deserve a heartfelt chat. 🥰 Once your little one arrives and a DNA test, if he insists, clears the air, emotions will probably smooth out like love settling in. It's like the ultimate reality check! 😜

[EmmaMary]

Problem solved then.

[seeyounexttuesday]

So get the test and put him at ease.