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There are stories every year where a transwoman won't disclose that she is trans immediately to the guy and they will go on dates and maybe do something sexual before the man finds out.

Guys reaction to this is often violence which results in brutal beating of the transwoman and in some cases an attempt at homicide.

For example, February of last year, an 18 y/o transwoman from the UK performed BJ on a guy. The guy found out she was trans later and then got together with his group of friends and stabbed her multiple times with a knife. She was rushed in critical condition to the ICU but luckily survived and now has trust issues and fear to leave her home.

"In January 2024, the girl was with Harris at his house, and while there, a mutual friend called Harris telling him she was “trans”.

“Having been attacked in the past because of her transgender identity, she denied it,” prosecutor Deanna Heer KC told jurors.

She and Harris then kissed, and she performed oral sex on him, the court heard.

Soon afterwards, another friend told Harris that the girl was a “tranny”, the prosecutor said.

She denied it again, but when Harris picked up a knife and said, “I’ll stab you if you lie”, she felt intimidated and admitted that she was transgender before Harris told her to leave."

Keep in mind, the men who engaged in sexual activity were not forced to do the act. They found what was in front of them as attractive and willingly took part in the deed. And while yes the transwoman did lie by not disclosing she was trans, do you think this reaction from men to go straight for violence with intent to kill or main is justified?

I am 24 and I feel a bit insecure about telling the guy I am dating that I haven't date anyone else before. How should I answer if he asks about whether I've dated anyone else or how many relationships I've been in? Which one is the better option?