Search Results: wait or move on

We dated briefly, then again. He seemed to be into me now he is changing the narrative. Why?

We dated briefly, he was fun, open and positive but I was in a bad place in life. It didn't work. He literally told me "you say you like me but you don't act like you do. I want to be with someone who wants me just as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this normal behaviour from my ex?

I’m 22 been with this guy who’s 27. He tells me he dosent want a relationship for a while maybe in the future but right now it’s not what he wants. So fair enough on him for telling me it made him seem like a good person....

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I know if this guy has moved on?

Plese help I'm really confused about this guy I've been dating this guy, and I asked him over text if he liked a certain movie. He responded by asking if I wanted to go see the new one for our next date (which would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Has this guy moved on?

I've been dating this guy, and I asked him over text if he liked a certain movie. He responded by asking if I wanted to go see the new one for our next date (which would be our fourth; we've been dating for just over two...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m 16 and my boyfriend (17) of a year wants to have sex. I’m not ready and don’t think I’ll be until I’m at least 18. What should I do?

(i made this account in a hurry so please ignore the age i don’t really know the age requirement here i just wanted advice) my boyfriend is incredibly kind hearted and thoughtful, he’d never push me into anything I wasn’t...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

If a good friend admits their feelings and you don't feel the same way, what do you do?

I have my own situation like this. It is complicated, but long story short I admitted to a friend I like her/have feelings for her. She didn't know I felt that way, and from what I gather, she said a good amount of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We’re both going to move soon, but does he like me or just wants to be friends?

I just reconnected with a friend from high school that I used to do Track & Field with. I did not notice him at first, but he would always DM me about my stories and say he enjoys my posts. Then he would like all my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do guys mean by keep it casual and avoid hurt feelings (he said this after I said I would be moving away for a month)?

We’ve been on a couple dates and I really saw the relationship potential and told him straight up from the beginning what I was looking for. Should I chill out, hang and wait too see what happens after I move back or just...

Emilyrich93

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is it time to move on?

I can see it in her eyes... she doesn't love me. She says she does, but spending time with me seems like a chore for her and she can't wait to go home. She has zero interest in anything I do, and the infatuation is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Should I try to be friends with this girl or just move on?

She has autism and I don't know how much of that affects her life. I noticed though if I send her a lot of text messages that does seem to overwhelm her. But she asked if we could be friends and I told her sure. A week or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do (some) guys wait until its too late to say or do something?

Wait until one of you moves away to confess their feelings.. wait until one of your moves on to another job to apologize.. wait until you've moved on to admit they were in the wrong.. wait until its always in the past to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How can I stop being so nice to people once I develop a crush on them? Should I not try to be a friend first?

I've started to notice a bad pattern of mine. I usually am very quirky, odd, and very blunt, which people seem to enjoy. I say whatever is on my mind at any time. I guess some would call me an asshole. But I'm also very...

MichaelCarlin

Xper 2 Age: 42

Why would a male friend who caused me tremendous grief wait an entire year to apologize?

He said 'he noticed things got weird between us (I was pissed and wouldn't let him off the hook), and he shouldn't have let that linger for so long, that he had just put it on the back burner and that he is sorry'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a girl immediately unmatch you after first date?

Hello everyone, So I've had a first date with a match on hinge yesterday. a lot of things went wrong. I could tell when she first saw me she looked a bit disappointed. She was dressed up and I dressed casual in...

fakeplanttree

Xper 1 Age: 33

Was he flirting with me?

I have this guy friend in my class. I've known him for a while now. We've gotten pretty close, we talk about family, our problems and all of that stuff. There were moments where we would talk about deep stuff when it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I (40F) break up with my boyfriend (30M) bc he said he wants to move out but still continue in the relationship?

4 days ago he flipped out on me for asking if he got a call from the mechanic, my car broke down the night before. I said I’m not going to be talked to like this. We didn’t speak the whole day, the previous fight he told...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it okay If I spend my holiday with my ex fiance’s mother?

I no longer have feelings for my ex fiance and he’s now a story of past. His mom has been in touch with me every week since I came here in China, when I was totally alone his mom and dad always were ready to support me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What is the likelihood that he will come back after a breakup?

He and I had a 4.5-year relationship that was mainly long-distance (3 hours away). We had usual issues throughout our time together. Around year 2 of the relationship, he said he wanted to break up since he felt like the...

Anonymous

(25-29)