I’m 22 been with this guy who’s 27. He tells me he dosent want a relationship for a while maybe in the future but right now it’s not what he wants. So fair enough on him for telling me it made him seem like a good person. But he still says to me he will kill me if I see another man or sleep with one since I’m still ‘his’ and I still ‘belong to him’ he will call me everyday and say get ready I’m taking you out for food and I’m coming to see you and he never shows? He will say wait there I’m coming and he will not show and he says stuff like ‘I expect you to wait around for me forever this is me making sure you see no one else’
I know he sleeps with other women and when I confront him he goes crazy and starts saying ‘that’s it we’re never gonna be together now you’ve ruined it’ then as soon as I just say ‘okay’ he starts calling me and saying he dosent mean it and he wants us to be together in the future? I say okay and move on. Whenever I don’t call him though he gets mad at me for being distant but he’s told me he dosent want a relationship?
Is this normal? Does this mean he wants a relationship or what? He also tells me that he’s gonna ask my friends about if I am seeing other men and sleeping with other men and make sure they tell me?
He literally calls me sometimes and I can hear women laughing in the background and he will say how he loves me? He says that he wants us to be together one day and have a big family but then he says not right now?
Why is he like this I am confused?
