I have my own situation like this. It is complicated, but long story short I admitted to a friend I like her/have feelings for her.
She didn't know I felt that way, and from what I gather, she said a good amount of reasons (distance, she has social anxiety/her own mental health problems to take care of first, has a hard time being a good friend - yet alone anything more). All things I thought about prior to asking, but felt maybe we can move past that - felt it was worth it. Overall, I don't think she feels the same way.
She did say that she really likes me a lot and wouldn't want to lose a good friend (she doesn't have many).
I told her I appreciate her honesty and I understand - and i hope i didn't complicate things. She knows herself the best - but if she ever needs help/advice or anything not to hesitate to ask - good friends are hard to come by and we all need help sometimes with life's struggles. We can't overcome things alone.
She gave me a š , i gave her one back and that was that. (This all happened this morning)
I've been sitting on it, but I plan to give myself some time. I'm not going to be an ass and ghost her, especially if she has emotional/social anxiety issues. But wondering if I should wait for her to reach out to me first? I don't think my response was anything like I said "goodbye" ?