4 days ago he flipped out on me for asking if he got a call from the mechanic, my car broke down the night before. I said I’m not going to be talked to like this. We didn’t speak the whole day, the previous fight he told me to leave him alone and I like to resolve problems right away while he needs space and I didn’t give him space previously so I did this time. The next morning he literally was screaming at me bc I wouldn’t talk to him at all. He told me he wants to take a break and move out, but still stay in a relationship together. He left for his sisters and have been there ever since. I didn’t text him once until he texted me last night, fighting continued. Then talked on the phone for over 3 hrs today. He explained why he felt the way he felt. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years, living together for 1 yr. It’s my house he moved into, and he feels it’s not his house and he’s just a roommate, that I don’t appreciate him. I know he needs his space, I get it but moving out shows me he’s walking away and giving up, and if he does it once he’ll do it again every time things get hard. My thinking is if he moves out, I’m done, fully. I’ve been crying for 4 days straight bc of this bc I don’t want to break up but I also won’t wait on the back burner for him either. Am I being unreasonable?
Should I (40F) break up with my boyfriend (30M) bc he said he wants to move out but still continue in the relationship?
