Search Results: future together

How do you break up with someone who has the we can fix it mindset?

My partner and I have been together for 4 years. I have tried to break up with him numerous times, but it never seems to work. I care for him as a human but not relationship wise. I don't want a next person but I do feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girlfriend has doubts because she says we're both financially unstable?

We're both broke and she gets all in her head about our future every now and then and cries and says maybe we should break up, but we haven't yet, I have never wanted to, but with her being like this every couple months I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex said he doesn’t see a future with me and doesn’t love me. What does he mean?

So my ex and I were together for 4 months before he ended things, and we remained actively in contact and hanging out in the 5 months since the breakup. Since the breakup we’ve hung out many times, he asked to meet my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend talks about breaking up because we're both financially unstable, I don't know what to do anymore?

I love her dearly, want to marry her, she's not into the whole marriage thing and just wants to stay together forever or whatever. We're both broke and she gets all in her head about our future every now and then and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it worth giving my girlfriend a second chance?

This is the second time this has happened, we’ve been together just over a year. Our relationship is amazing otherwise. We’ve worked on so many things through our relationship, mainly her due to her past. She does...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is having a really close relationship with your dad weird when you're an adult?

So pretty much my whole life I have had massive and deep respect for my father, that hasn't debated at all since becoming an adult. He saved me from my nutcase of a mother, and if it wasn't for him I'd probably have been...

19magic

Guru Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend keeps talking about his 'future wife'. Is he not into me?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have fun, the sex is great and we have a lot in common. We always laugh whenever we're together. However, he keeps referring to 'my future wife this' and 'my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would he try to (get me to) break up, but say he’ll fix things every time?

A year ago I finally fully ended things with my ex. He was extremely emotionally abusive. He’d use the things he knew would hurt me most and do exactly that or worse. At the beginning, he even abused me sexually for about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why am I mourning the loss of someone I never even had?

To start, I did a terrible thing. I'm a 31 year old female currently in a 9 year relationship with my fiance. The relationship has gotten stale and I see that our paths may not be aligning for a future together much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever regretted dating an attractive partner?

Were you concerned they would be a constant flirt and get too much attention? This may lead to cheating? I once met this attractive girl. Not know for anything scandalous. Our paths crossed 3 months before her wedding....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Black Spending Power is a catchphrase coined by Woke advertisers & the Media to encourage Black folks to blow their money on crap?

In 2022 the black spending power hit a whooping 1.6 Trillion dollars? How much of that was spent Nike Jordans? 1 billion? How much spent on nails and hair extensions? On Mercedes? How much we spending paying the intrest...

Drewtate

Yoda Age: 26

Are we dating? What do I do and say to him?

So there's this guy I've been seeing for the past month and a half, and we've known each other for a few months now because we worked together over the summer. Since we've been back at college we've been spending a lot of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I continue seeing him or end things?

Hi everyone, so I have a situation where I have been on a couple of dates with a new man, and so far everything has been good. When we were together we both equally felt so happy with each other. We live in different...

Anonymous

(25-29)

While unmarried, would you feel more comfortable living with your current/future significant other or having your own place? Why?

I wouldn’t mind living in the same apartment complex or house neighborhood, and just spending the night at eachothers place on occasion. I understand that its technically causing us to spend more money than necessary, but...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I wouldn’t mind living in the same apartment complex or house neighborhood, and just spending the night at eachothers place on occasion. I understand that its technically causing us to

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How do u know if you should marry someone?

My boyfriend wants to marry me. He's giving me time to think about it. I told him mayb in 2yrs or so. He's totally okay with the time frame because he wants to buy a house. How do you know if they are the one? Sometimes I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Friendship getting weird?

First of all, excuse me for my English. Or rather excuse the translation website I probably used here. So, I have a problem with this friend. She is the girlfriend of an old friend. She has been his girlfriend for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

After 10 years my boyfriend has dropped an unexpected bomb that he might still be legally married. How can you not know if your still married?

I recently asked my boyfriend of 10 years where he saw our relationship going being that we have been together for over 10 years yet technically we are only G/F and B/F we don’t live together even though he refers to me...

Anonymous

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