Were you concerned they would be a constant flirt and get too much attention? This may lead to cheating?
I once met this attractive girl. Not know for anything scandalous. Our paths crossed 3 months before her wedding. Prior to this, we had both known of each other and had met/talked briefly at different events over the years. We live far away and there never was much opportunity to talk in the past.
Anyway, this time we were at a common acquaintance's party and spent 3 days together with out host so we had enough time to talk.
I always was very attracted to her and I was single so I just took my chance to flirt with her subtly. By the end of it, she seemed to imply or suggest what a future would like for us. Mainly, she wanted to move to the same country as me and was wondering about career opportunities for her. On the last night, we stayed up talking till 4 am. At which point, she was wishy-washy of going to her room and kept coming back to the living room where i was sleeping. I felt uncomfortable with the possibility of cheating and I ignored her and fell asleep. Next day, as we parted, she gave me a passionate hug.
Over the next year or two, after she was married, we would occasionally engage in a group chat we were both part of... and she would get flustered when engaging with me. Trying to impress/flirt with me a little.
I wouldn't think she is a cheater, but maybe she just had feeling for me as well. However, sometimes I have been wrong. Any thoughts?
