Search Results: guys and long term relationships

Why "Playing Hard to Get" or sending "Mixed Signals" doesn't really work.

Definition of "Playing Hard to Get" : to pretend that one is not interested in having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone in order to make that person more attracted to them. Definition of "Sending Mixed...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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What makes a guy want to settle down/ get into a long term relationship? (See details)?

The guy I like, I won't call him a player, but he is still in the phase where he has only ever had flings and wants short term relationships. Basically does not want to get attached or settle down. He does believe in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Two things about why I might give up on love?

1. Whenever I look for love, things always turn out bad. Not only cus I get rejected like a lot of times but cus something else bad happens. At one point, as a result of me looking for love, I almost put my family in...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does he like me or am I being paranoid?

So, I’m happily in a long term relationship of 7 years! I recently started a new job (second month in) there’s a guy who I get along with and work with a lot as we’re both training. But, this is where I’m becoming a bit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

What do you think about Wife School?

I thought this was a joke, but there are books, online courses and classes a future spouse can take to create a better marriage, home and family. Ten years ago I would have made fun of the idea as it would have sounded...

Qdbrown

Xper 6 Age: 55

Guys, is "wife material" dependent on looks?

I've heard from some guys that they'll date a girl who's kinda attractive to them, but not their "dream girl" looks wise as long as they get along personality-wise with them. But that they'll only date really long term or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What makes a man lucky to have a woman?

What makes one guy leave a woman but cling to another? Us women have been shocked at some of the women able to achieve a loving, long-term, stable relationship. Moreso with a guy that feels lucky to have them. What do...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A man with kids?

For around 2 years now this guy has been really nice to me he’s a friend of my dads and he’ll notice my emotions and help me a lot and always check up on me but kept his distance cause I was in a long term long distance...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy acts different when we’re alone?

Gotten close with this guy at work over the last few months and we’ve hung out a few times outside of work (usually with others, but once we hung out alone). That day we were alone I got a different side of him - he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you be okay with letting your boyfriend hangout with random hoes and his boys?

Hi guys, just wanted to see what other people thought about having your boyfriend constantly going out with his single boys and surrounded with random girls that none of them know plus alcohol. I feel that it’s wrong but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help? Need to break the toxic cycle?

Can someone please help me? Any views from anyone who’s been through similar or any advice at all would be appreciated:-) I’ve been friends with this guy for 3-years, but very flirty messages etc. found out he’s in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My Views on Boss Ass BAE/B*tches and Modern Day Relationships.

I have been wanting to do a MyTake on this after seeing questions posted by a few users on here. I left links down below to highlight the questions behind the inspiration for the MyTake so you can see my opinions and are...

ShadezMcgee

Guru Age: 33

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How to forget my first love?

I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months and he was really my first love but i wasn't his first. This is sad cause i told him that i love him at the moment i felt that but he never responded me and he disappeared...

Anonymous

(18-24)

He either really hates me or really wants to sleep with me?

There’s this guy who likes to debate lol. Once we had a discussion in class about racism and I spoke out ( I’m a woman of color ) and I basically said that black people face it the hardest and Asians face more micro...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Would a guy want a girl like me for a long term relationship?

So I'm 31 and I don't have the ability to work or get a degree and I don't want children. The only skill I have in life is that I can paint and draw I was told that I was amazingly talented and can make money by it, its...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get him to notice me?

I met this guy at work and he was first to approach me. He really tried hard to become my friend and we ended up training together and working in the same department. I thought he was really cute and we got talking more...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I get him to invite me out?

There’s this guy. I’m 21 and he’s in one of my classes. I can’t tell if he’s interested in me or not. We all sit in a circle and it’s an English history class so we talk about race issues and stuff like that. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)