Would a guy want a girl like me for a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

So I'm 31 and I don't have the ability to work or get a degree and I don't want children. The only skill I have in life is that I can paint and draw I was told that I was amazingly talented and can make money by it, its something I'm working on but its slow appearantly and good money is to come later...

My looks are average but people still think I'm in my early 20's and say I'm pretty... But I see myself as non desirable...

[SnowedIn]

There are many men who would (and will) find you desirable. It may take time and the process may be frustrating, but there is a man out there for you. Not all men want (fill in the blank) when it comes to looks, body attributes, or money. You and he will find each other.

[Anonymous]

No, thank you. "I can't work or get a degree." you just wrote a paragraph. You obviously don't have an intellectual disability. You sound lazy. I met girls who swapped college debt, expecting me to marry them and pay it off. No, thank you.

[Asker]

Hey I may be broke but I don't expect a guy to financially do anything for me okay.

[musicbrain5]

For sure there’s guys out there who will date you. But I don’t think there are a lot of guys who will want to be with someone who doesn’t work for the long term. Is there a reason why you’re unable to work?

[Asker]

Lack of social skills and trouble focusing

[LazerBean]

A long term sugar baby perhaps, but serious long term life partner is not likely.

[Asker]

So for long term as surgar baby huh lol. This made me laugh..

[Avicenna]

Does that mean he would have to support you financially?

[Asker]

I guess...

[Avicenna]

That could be a problem, but I think you'd still find someone

[Asker]

I don't have much money so... Yeah I'm broke but I'm not the kind of person the expect my partner to do anything financially for me though..

[Avicenna]

You'll be OK then. Average looking is not a problem.

[Asker]

I'm also a virgin

[Avicenna]

Oh, that is actually a huge plus for most men

[Asker]

Well i'm 31 aswell. But okay

[Avicenna]

I'm telling you, it's not a problem

[Asker]

Okay that's great then

[sassy_receptor]

i have a few male family members who are looking for exactly what you described.

[art84]

If you are average looking then yes if you find a guy who is average looking as well.

[Asker]

I was told I was above average looking and was told a lot of things but the fact I'm not working or earning money makes me feel hopeless

[Asker]

I'm also a virgin

[art84]

That's good as I am a virgin myself.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Why don’t you have the ability to work?

[Asker]

Lack of social skills

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Such as communication? Could you kindly elaborate on that

[Asker]

I'm can't communicate with people very well

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I’m assuming you tried speech therapy and similar treatments? If not then how are you surviving currently?

[WhitneySnow]

I think you’ll find a guy