Can someone please help me? Any views from anyone who’s been through similar or any advice at all would be appreciated:-)
I’ve been friends with this guy for 3-years, but very flirty messages etc. found out he’s in a long-term relationship with kids. Trouble is, I’ve got feelings for him and worst of all, we live in the same, small village; so I see him around often :-( I’ve tried to cut contact, but within a few weeks, he’s back again with the messages. Nothing physical has happened and it wouldn’t, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want it to. I have a family too.
Never expected to feel this way and love my family, but can’t help how I feel about him.
I know I need to break the cycle for the good of everyone, but I don’t know how.
It’s making me feel depressed. He’s hot & cold, so just when I’m getting away mentally, he’s there again. I don’t want anyone to be hurt. Feelings are a hard thing to beat and I feel trapped in a cycle :-(
