Search Results: hurt in relationships

What does the constant disappearing mean?

I have this guy I grew up with. We recently got in contact and he this year. He hit me up first, and he would find little ways to hit me up here and there. He admitted that he found me attractive too, but he never did...

Mhmmmalreadykno

Xper 5 Age: 23

So.. what is his deal? does he like me?

he is a oddball.. he thinks that sex/marriage should be illegal, and said he wouldn't date. He's egotistical. (You can skip to the last 3 paragraphs since that is more relevant, next 2 is history of our relationship & why...

Superticklighgirl

Xper 5 Age: 23

Family & Friends

How do I end this friendship, respectfully?

I’m really struggling with a tough decision, and I need some advice. I know some of y’all might ridicule me since this is about an online friendship but anyways…. I’ve been friends with this guy online for over four years...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Did I hurt his feelings?

There’s this guy that I kinda like and started talking to months ago but we haven’t spoken since 2 weeks. We wanted to meet up but he wasn’t sure if he’s free that day so I told him to just text me when he is. He never...

joanjane12

Xper 2 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Women what's the best things a boyfriend can do during a pause in a relationship?

Recently my girlfriend of 3 years has wanted a pause in our relationship for a little bit, to work on her self. she's having problems she's needing to deal with and says "it's not you it's me". I haven't felt any red...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If he emotionally hurt me but goes out with someone else instead of fixing our relationship, did he never care about me?

A man has been giving me mixed signals and started avoiding me all of a sudden. When I found out he was talking to someone else without directly letting me know , he didn't seem to care much and continued to talk with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he ghost me?

I met this guy on bumble and we were together for 3 1/2 months exclusively. I met his mom and I brought him gifts etc. he was having to have dual hip surgery due to him being in the military and being discharged the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What has made you cheat in a relationship?

I'm guilty of cheating. I did once and never again I felt like trash after that. I hurt someone who loved me thinking another guy liked me. When really he had a girlfriend.

missindiana93

Explorer Age: 32

What Do Guys Think Of Scenes?

All relationships are different, but I do consider it as cheating. My boyfriend is making excuses saying it is in guys nature and they don’t intentionally try to do it and hurt their girlfriend. "They just want to get...

abg_doubleds

Xper 1 Age: 22

Break Up & Divorce

Help baby dad ex?

I've been with my child's farther for about 2 years a lot has happend and there's a lot of water under the bridge I found out I had a brain tumour when I was with my ex so we have been though so much we use to argue and...

Honesty3377

Xper 1 Age: 28

Found out boyfriend talked bad about me when we were separated - how to cope and find out the truth?

I found out that during a separation, my boyfriend had been going around talking bad about me and also trying to hit up girls from the past on Facebook. Most these girls ignored him and didn't respond. A couple did...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was planning on asking my girlfriend to marry me in a week and it turns out she no longer wants to get married? At least not now?

We have been dating for just under 2 years. She is not from the US and very early on in our relationship, she was pushing for us to get married. And I was scared because it was so new and I wasn’t sure if she was using me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend doesn't really treat me that good anymore. It's really starting to hurt me. What can I do?

I'm not understanding why my boyfriend is even with me at this time. It feels like he just doesn't care and doesn't want me. I do mostly everything at home as far as housework goes (we live together). He makes rude...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

I cope with grief by wishing for death any advice?

Yes I know the title is very controversial but let me start off by explaining that I recently lost my mom 3 years ago at the age of 52 from pancreatic cancer and she was all that I had and I had a very close relationship...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Was I played or was this man afraid of his feelings?

I need some type of closure or clue of what happen to me (28) and this guy (38) I met him on a dating app early may for simply hooking up only, he was my first (ONS) being I’m inexperienced to this we ended talking the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is it that, in relationships, I often find myself carrying the weight of someone else’s past pain and betrayal?

It feels unfair to face the repercussions of wounds I didn’t cause, as if I’m constantly paying the price for the actions of others who broke their trust. Instead of starting fresh and building something new, I’m left...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I ask a friend if she be down for friends with benefits?

So friends in a open relationship with a older women who can't keep up with her sexually. How can I go about asking her if she be done to try ist with me? She had a guy she was talking to but he Lied about his age so she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My Family Hates My 13-Year Age Gap Relationship, But I’m So Happy—What Should I Do?

I’m in a relationship with a guy who’s 13 years younger than me. I’m 40, and he’s 27. I know we have a big age gap. I was actually super hestiant about dating him at first because of that. However, when I finally decided...

Anonymous

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