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Boyfriend doesn't really treat me that good anymore. It's really starting to hurt me. What can I do?

I'm not understanding why my boyfriend is even with me at this time. It feels like he just doesn't care and doesn't want me.

I do mostly everything at home as far as housework goes (we live together). He makes rude "jokes" (like tells me I don't do enough when I do everything and stuff). He doesn't really give much - he does all the taking. I am good to him. I give him back rubs, he loves scalp massages and apparently I'm good at them so I give him those, I give him little just because gifts or give him a nice card on special occasions, I pleasure him sexually (he always gets oral and gets off). I treat him really good. Me? I never get back rubs. I never get cards or even a random small gift like candy. I never get oral anymore (he's gotten selfish so he's the only one who gets oral now). He doesn't sleep in bed with me anymore (we ALWAYS used to).

I feel extremely unappreciated and unwanted. I don't see why he stays with me when he apparently doesn't want me. I don't understand why he acts like this now. Relationships are two way streets and this is feeling very one sided. I've talked about the oral thing. He agreed we needed to 69 more so we each got pleasure. It never happens. I talked about the sleeping thing. He just stays on the couch each night and snores away. I don't understand why he doesn't want to share a bed with me anymore.

I just feel very used. Like I'm good for some sexual pleasure when he wants it and I'm a great maid, but he doesn't really want to be with me. That really hurts too because he claims to love me. Well, this is an odd way to show love.

I don't know what else to do. It really hurts, especially when nothing has changed to me. He's the one doing all this. I don't understand why. How can I fix it?

Boyfriend doesn't really treat me that good anymore. It's really starting to hurt me. What can I do?
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