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When this question is posed, the majority of women who support abortion rights will respond with something like "men already have a choice... they can choose not to have sex". Well the obvious fact is that women have that exact same choice, but when they make a mistake and get pregnant they can choose abortion to opt out of being a parent. And that is exactly why the vast majority of abortions happen.

https://www. verywellhealth. com/reasons-for-abortion-906589

The whole "it's my body, my choice" thing seems more like an excuse to allow women to control everything related to reproduction when you consider why women actually choose to have abortions. They are choosing not to be a parent for exactly the same reasons why men would like to choose not to be a parent when they made exactly the same mistake.

There would of course have to be some strict requirements if we made "paper abortions" legal. A man would have to let the pregnant woman know of his choice early enough in the pregnancy that she can make an informed choice about whether she wants to abort or continue with the pregnancy knowing she will be a single mother without financial support from the father. The woman would need to notify the man of the pregnancy early enough to make that choice in time to meet the requirement. If she doesn't, she forfeits her right to child support. The man would have to give up the right to be a part of the child's life.

So, if women can choose to have an abortion simply because they made a mistake and are not ready or willing to become a parent, shouldn't men have a similar option? It seems hypocritical to argue otherwise.

I feel like this is pretty obvious but the best examples of healthy relationships come from the couples I know where the women is willing to contribute the same if not more depending on the current situations.

2 samples...

1 - I have friend who bought a house with his partner almost 2 years ago, his girlfriend paid more for the downpayment and is paying more for the mortgage right now because she is further along in her career and is making more money consistently then he is. They worked out a deal where he will eventually pay more for the mortgage & contribute more when his career eventually takes off.

2 - I have a friend on the verge of getting married and he had to move in with his wife to be sooner than expected because his work & student visa got screwed up at the end of 2021, since then he has been living with his girlfriend and she has been taking care of him financially until he gets full citizenship & is able to work.

Based off of those and other examples, I've notice that the 50/50 & the give/take method of a relationship works the best.

What are your thoughts?