Why are Asian women seen as so much so attractive than Asian men?

[Anonymous]

I know some of you don't believe this, but I'm talking about generalities here because that's what these stats are.

It can't literally be that Asian women have better genes for obvious reasons. They're literally created from the people of the same Asian background, so I wanna know, what do you think is happening here?
I know some of you are thinking Asian women have much much more desirable personality traits, and everyone is entitled to preference, but if that's really what you think, I wanna know what you think these great traits are and why do you think Asian women still want Asian men when Asian women can win over the rest of the dating market? I personally think there is a societal issue but feel free to share what you think. You can talk about the rest of the chart too if you want but I felt this was the most interesting. I'm a sociology professor by the way.

[Anonymous]

It seemed like that when I was little. It might be because Asians tend to be statistically smaller who don't seem to sleep around as much and women prefer guys who sleep around with their friends first so they can tell her if he is good in bed or not. I like Asian women because ones I've dated feel better, smarter, less promiscuous, more loyal, and much more. But this is only my personal experience

However since late high school and I started college, I noticed the opposite happening. For the past 3 years, my male Asian friends are having more girls wanting them and girls from all races telling me saying my Korean friend is cute and asking for his number. I think it might be the rise of boy bands like bts and stray kids

I couldn't help be conscious about this because I was suddenly this boring white redneck. But then realized it's just the area I'm in, there are 2 cities here which are majority Asian and they are surrounded by cities which are majorly white. If I lived in the hick south, I assume I might be more popular with women than my Asian peers

[HighlyVolatile]

I think Asian men don't have very popular physical features typically when pitted against Western standards like being very skinny and not so tall and generally not the most well-endowed down there. They also often have character traits that aren't so popular like being very straight-edged hard-workers, often nerdy, and on the conservative side with respect to things like family and marriage.

Meanwhile, those same kinds of qualities like being skinny, a bit nerdy, hard-working, and on the conservative side with respect to things like family and marriage tend to be flattering traits for Asian women.

[HighlyVolatile]

Many Asian men also aren't very good at counter-culture typically and cultivating that bad boy image so popular in the West. Like if you've ever heard Japanese rap music, they sing about family, friendship, and having good times. It's not cool at all by Western standards!

[HighlyVolatile]

Tiny penis vs. tiny vagina, you know, if I get all crude with the stereotypes!

[HighlyVolatile]

One thing as far as genetics go is that Asians tend to have reduced bone density, smaller bones (less broad shoulders resulting from shorter clavicles, thinner wrists, etc), and overall higher distribution of body fat over lean mass when pitted against Westerners of the same BMI. That's why the Asian standards for obesity often start at 23+ BMI, not 25+ as in the West, and that's not due to tighter standards. It's because Asians are typically fattier than people of other racial phenotypes. The average type doesn't have much muscle at all.

[Berethor]

Asian women's main value is that they don't tend to be feminists, and also that they short.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/CareerVersusMan

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty/index.html

[Adam1978]

No but they can have traits better fit for women than men. Like being short. That and there is more men than women over there so it's a scarcity, on top of that there is a culture creating leftover women who seek western men when they have fail at the home market.

[Avicenna]

Well, it's not a good data set to use since it's kina old and only captured a small portion of the dating pool. Furthermore, it's a US data set, not a global one.

Most Asian women in the US date and marry Asian men, which isn't surprising.

[Asker]

So you think the data has changed in the past 8 years?

Whatever your answer is I wanna know why you think it was like that in 2014 then?
I also should specify that I am referring to the US and want the US stats because the US is one of the most diverse countries. If not, the most.

[noamazia]

well fuck that, i want to know why Asian people just hate black people?
and according to this, everyone hats black women, even worse then japanese dudes?

[Asker]

Yeah I wanna know why too. Any ideas?

[Bluemax]

Even though I suspect it's accurate, data culled from Okcupid doth not a proper study make.

[Asker]

If you believe it's accurate, what's your opinion on the matter?

[Anonymous]

African is the most masculine ethnicity
Asian is the most feminin ethnicity

Men are attracted to femininity
Women are attracted to masculinity

[Asker]

Adding that African part is not congruent with the chart because black men are also not very desirable. Do you think women in Asia also believe Asian men are more feminine?
You can see that black women are undesirable. Do you think the Black communities in Africa think that black women are the most masculine?

[Opinion Owner]

Sadly I think racism against black people muddies the picture...
1. Yes
2. Yes

[Anonymous]

Asians tend to be more feminine in their features and character, which is a positive for women but not for men. Similarly, blacks tend to be more masculine in their features and character, which is a positive for men but not for women.

[ihatemylife123]

lol attractive my ass

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rKWEut3WKAg

[Asker]

Exactly. That's why I wanna know

[bamesjond0069]

Asians have more feminine features and more feminine culture. So these are attractive to most men and unattractive to most women.

[Asker]

Do you think women in Asia also believe that Asian men have more feminine features?

[bamesjond0069]

Yes and no. Many Asian women also like white men from your data. However if they are strict in their culture they will prefer what their culture tells them what is appropriate and right.

[Anonymous]

I believe because of the petite stature. As women, guys like that. Women want "big" guys to feel protected, even though that means nothing lol. Just "feelings", but that's what women are all about.

[ronaldo75]

Asian women are incredibly feminine compared to women in other parts of the world. Asian men are not very masculine compared to men in other parts of the world.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

East Asian women aren't attractive to me. I just don't see it.

[driven159]

First thing a notice on an Asian woman is her hair and her legs then the rest

[Anonymous]

Oh shut up who cares about the ratings. Most of the people who do them are probably skin color obsessed racists

[Asker]

I'm a new sociology professor. It's in my nature to be curious about these things.

[custard83]

It's all about physical height.

[OddBeMe]

According to who? Westerners? Or fellow Asians?

[Asker]

The US okcupid users

[OddBeMe]

Not exactly a representative poll for America. That’d be like asking pornhub users about appropriate relations between step daughters.

[Asker]

Ok well then why do you think okcupid users think like this?

[OddBeMe]

I don't know, why don’t we ask Reddit users what their thoughts on race are.

[Asker]

Thanks but I already did. You're no help

[OddBeMe]

That was a joke. Reddit is one of the racist places on the net.

[JesseJayNeak]

Asians in general are genetically attractive

[Anonymous]

I think they are looks monster