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Normally this wouldn’t be an issue for me to address. My experience is anytime I start to tell or answer his questions about my past, I don’t move from the truth and time and time again he attacks me for it later. He’s convinced because I used to go out on Saturday nights when I was single that I was just having a bunch of one night stands. I’ve actually never even had a one night stand and he won’t let go of the thought that is how I was. I even asked him if I told him my number would he believe me? He told me no. I’ve asked why this is so important when he doesn’t believe and makes me upset what the point is…. And he never has a decent answer. After 4 years this has only become an issue that he brought to my attention over the last year. Thoughts?

29F, we have been speaking for maybe 2 weeks but haven’t spoken that much, in the sense maybe 1-2 replies a day. And I guess that is somewhat my fault, I only check the app in the evenings & that’s when I send msgs. He gave his # when I asked if he had social media & he doesn’t, that’s when I said I’d prefer to wait a bit longer before sharing my # & he seemed to understand. He asked if I’ve been to this local restaurant because they have great sushi & he thinks I’d like them, we confirmed the time earlier this week. It’s odd because I say I prefer hinge based off the conversations & guys I seemed to “attract” from the app but never actually met up with one in person. I feel like if I decide to meet him tomorrow, I’ll no longer have this higher opinion of the app. And while I know all the apps have good & bad, I’m still kind of wary. At the same time, my expectations of this guy are non existent, when he gave his number I did a quick search on him & no criminal record/no social media found. I just feel like I’m kind of used to speaking to the guy (s) a bit more on daily basis before meeting up, I asked if he wanted to do a call prior & he said he was fine either way.