Search Results: red flags

I applied for a part time security role while hoping the tech industry recovers. I am going to admit, I do LOVE my uniforms. Anyways, this role may entail carrying a weapon. It made mentions of possibly being able to carry a weapon, but it wasn't clear whether this was an armed or unarmed role. I assume if I need to be armed, they will put me through more extensive training.

I have been involuntarily hospitalized before, but I am going to keep my mouth shut and let them run a gun background screening. If no red flags show up, I am going to opt for being armed

I want to get feedback on my partner:

- She’s not keen on me seeing friends, for my safety and would rather I met them with her. She also uses the find my iPhone feature with me.
- She messages me and phones various times per day, and gets frustrated if I don’t reply quickly, she says it’s to check I’m ok,
- She tracks my spending on her, to check we’re in budget. Even if I a buy a coffee she’s brings it up and asks why I bought it.
- She’s says if I don’t spend $$ on her birthday present I don’t love her. Also said her birthday needs to be “perfect” with hundreds of balloons etc and fancy cake.
- She doesn’t like me having a female friend at work, has told me to stop going to lunch with her. Said it’s to ensure I don’t “cheat”. She messaged my friend at work on Facebook to ask about me.
- My partner doesn’t like me following other girls on social media even friends.
- She told me I can’t have anyone better than her.

Is she a good partner? I’m really conflicted as this is my first relationship. My female friend said there is red flags everywhere, is she right?