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Me and my cousin are of same age and ever since we were kids, we would always be together in everything. play, fight, eat, sleep everything. we knew eachother's secrets and always had eachothers back. We would call eachother everyday to update what's happening and how our day went. suddenly from last 10-ish months he began avoiding me. no calls, no texts, no replies... but he would put on insta stories and call my father, but not to me. This really hurt me knowing that we both are legit like BFF'S that our entire relatives loved. So i asked him in a huge para about how horrible I'm feeling. all he said was he has a girlfriend and the only condition she kept for him was, him not talking with me or talk about me (she knew about me cuz he told her about me). I really don't want to keep my ego infront of me and kick him out of my life but also don't wanna loose my self-respect. I really love him (ofc not in anyother way) and ik he too. But do you think he did the right thing? And would you do the same if you were in his shoes?
Also let me know, what should I do?

I am on another app that is similar to GAG. On the app, there is a lady with no pfp who stated that she really likes this guy on the app that she has never seen in person or met yet gave him her phone number. Now that they've been talking via text for two weeks, he is planning to make arrangements to see her in person. Now that he's said this, she is posting that he's moving too fast and it's giving red flags. I told her , "Well, aren't you the one who initiated this? Since you have no pfp, he wants to see who he has been talking to."

So what is she hiding? Is she really a "she"? Is "she" right in feeling that he wants to meet too soon? Or is he right in wanting to see who he's been talking to?