Is he being catfished? And who is in the wrong him or her?

[GlowUpGirly5]

I am on another app that is similar to GAG. On the app, there is a lady with no pfp who stated that she really likes this guy on the app that she has never seen in person or met yet gave him her phone number. Now that they've been talking via text for two weeks, he is planning to make arrangements to see her in person. Now that he's said this, she is posting that he's moving too fast and it's giving red flags. I told her , "Well, aren't you the one who initiated this? Since you have no pfp, he wants to see who he has been talking to."

So what is she hiding? Is she really a "she"? Is "she" right in feeling that he wants to meet too soon? Or is he right in wanting to see who he's been talking to?

He's right in wanting to see who he is speaking with

She's right he's moving too fast

She's either a man , a catfish or both

A and C

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Ha her comment got removed lol 😆

[SueShe]

There are some catfish that try to get the attention, mostly of women, with the intention to get nudes but that will stop catfishing after they have received some.

However, this situations seems to have escalated beyond the expectations. Sharing nudes is one thing, meeting in person is a totally different one, mainly in view of the fact that most of those catfish that pretend to be women are actually men.

He falls into his own trap because now, he will have either to stop chatting with her or telling her the truth about him, which will obviously uncover him as a guy and not a girl.

Also, profile pictures can be taken off the internet and in most cases, they do not correspond the real identity of the one pretending to be on that picture.

[PeachyPie93]

A and C woman and good looking men are always posting themselves online so if they aren't they are either ugly asf, fat or a guy.. I never trust people who won't show who they are with a simple call but message like they are interested and want to see you. I would let her pump the brakes and drop that person like a hot potato.

[GlowUpGirly5]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 hilarious but true.

[Summeroflove]

Look, I will say there is a reason I don’t go in dating apps. You don’t know who you’re talking to. Scammers, rapists, killers, creeps, weirdos. The list goes on…. Maybe it’s the thrill of not knowing who it is.

But if I was on a dating app I would be very cautions of people not having a profile picture. Why are they hiding who they are? There is a lot of questions that need to be asked. I would say if she’s seeing red flags she can absolutely tell him that it’s not working out.

[Anonymous]

Most "women" on dating apps ate catfishes. A guy should ALWAYS assume a woman is catfish until proven otherwise. It's just a FACT of online dating. Women have to protect themselves. Guess what? So do guys.

[GlowUpGirly5]

True, and I said to her well you initiated this by giving him your number, and now that he wants to meet you after two weeks, you're saying he's rushing and a redflag.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. It's an unfortunate fact of online ANYTHING. Both gender use and taunt eachother. Tell him don't feel bad. But tell him to learn from this. Because this might be the first time but likely won't be the last time.

[debtfree_oneyear]

I never assume the women I am meeting look exactly like her dating profile. I once went to meet a women (date) for coffee at Starbucks. She looked nothing like her photo. I ended up standing in line next to my date without recognizing her. The rest of the date went downhill from there.

[Jennz6]

Both maybe? 🤷‍♀️

[GlowUpGirly5]

Omg 😂 that's what everyone is saying because she initiated this yet now that he wants to see who she is in person she's pumping the breaks saying he's moving too fast lol.

[Jennz6]

@glowupgirly5 yes, that’s what I thought too

[In_Trance]

Both