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So if you found out they had been on and off with a guy. The guy promised a future and just to sleep with each other. They slept with someone else. You’d kept this on the down low. You hadn’t really told friends you were sleeping together until it was a solid relationship you were being told it would be

People who told you this also were contacted by you years ago like more than 5 to ask of hed cheated on you. And years ago you had asked others to ask him to send back your stuff he took.

You contact girls you think it could have been to ask and explain and you expected you were pregnant so kept messaging to come up. The guy suspected it first. It will have been highly exaggerated saying she’s made up pregnant and acting crazy messages everyone to find out my relationship with them

If you found this out about your friend would you no longer be their friends

I have an Anxious Preocuppied Attachment style and he is a fearful avoidant, both 28. We had been together for 3 years before he broke up with me almost a month ago while celebrating our anniversary / my birthday. The month prior, he had moved to a new city due to being transferred at his job, so new workplace as well. His company gave him 2 weeks to move his whole life over there and he had to do the move while still going to work so he was highly stressed. The city is about 1.5hrs away by train from where I am (and he also was) and I have plans to go there next year for work, so we were thinking of going there together. So a long distance relationship would have been temporary and we would have seen each other once a month in person. He reassured me that everything would be okay and that we would absolutely make it work.

When he came back to our city a week after moving/starting his new job (for the celebration), he looked very stressed. His work week was hectic and he’d get home at around 9pm every day and go straight to sleep (about one message a day). At the hotel, where we were celebrated, he seemed to be in a terrible mood so I asked him what was wrong a bunch of times and also mentioned our future (moving in together eventually, which we’ve talked about before) and he said he didn’t know and couldn’t give me the answer that I wanted. He then came up with a bunch of excuses about needing to focus on himself and his career and not having the bandwidth to be in a relationship anymore. That he couldn’t cherish me. There was no changing his mind. I left the hotel and went back home.

The next day I called to make up and talk again but he was firm in his decision so we each apologized and thanked each other and that was it. He deleted me from IG and hasn’t reached out since. I have been in NC. I’m extremely hurt and am wondering if this is temporary or permanent? He broke up with me once before but came back after 20 mins apologizing. What should I do?

First off we've not had sex or anything. But still

I made this accusation when for the 3rd time he forgot to do a simple tast I have asked of him.

I mean he had no issues excessively sexting me early morning but he couldn't send one text saying his job was having a serious issue and you know I won't be able to respond easily. You can do this anytime - including if he went to the washroom. So I waited for 12 hours & this is the 3rd time such a thing has happened.

He comically agreed with my comment that I deserve more respect, etc. however ever since that day his attitude has entirely changed. Comments that he was making about a future together, etc. for days - or weeks - have suddenly become rather up in the air iffy.

And I'm reading the change in mannerism

And feeling like I've been talking with someone that has been leading me on hoping for easy sex - and when called out on it felt guilty or maybe offended or like how liars don't like being called liars didn't like me pointing out his conduct.