How to adjust to a long distance relationship?

[Drooogie4]

Hi, I've been dating this guy for a few months that is great.

As of today, I dropped him off at the airport because due to work he is living across the country for the next 9 months or so. He didn't really have a choice sadly.

But, we decided to stay together. He requested actually, so I don't think I'm too crazy for this.

We have plans to see each other already in a few months. Sadly we both are busy so won't be able to visit as much as we would like. But he's been great with communication generally. So lots of calls in our future.

Basically what I'm asking is, any tips for this? I've done this long distance thing before but it's been a while and it get my anxiety so worked up. But I really feel he's a catch that I'd like to not lose but I am struggling today.

[Simslover92]

Communication is key. Try to talk everyday if you can. If not through video chat, at least over the phone. Me and my boyfriend aren't nearly as far but because of our crazy work schedules we don't get to see each other that often but we make sure to talk almost everyday on the phone.

Try to keep things spicy as well. Send each other naughty pics every now and then and if you feel comfortable with it maybe sexting too.

[Drooogie4]

I agree. We made sure to download and add on Skype and we already talk on the phone a fair amount. 🤞

I think it just helps to hear it working for other people p

[Simslover92]

That's good. Skype will be a great way to keep up with communicating with each other besides talking on the phone. And yes it certainly does. I know another couple that's in a ldr and have been for a long time so it gives me hope. Hope it works out for you guys! :)

[Drooogie4]

Thank you!
I'm very thankful that it'll be less than a year as long as everything goes as planned which isn't terrible.
It definitely helps to have that timeline to wrap my head around

[Simslover92]

Oh yes you should be fine! Less than a year is great. Some people have to wait years before finally being together. I know for me and my guy it will be another year or so before we get together which sucks but we're willing to go the distance and I believe you two will make it!

[Simslover92]

And you're welcome!

[Drooogie4]

Its kinda sweet in a way. To have a relationship where you both have to put the effort in despite it being difficult.
It is an almost more intimate experience in some regards.
I feel like the key to any long term relationship is both people just wanting to make it work. So a good trial of sorts

[Simslover92]

Yes I totally agree. It definitely is a good trial of sorts to see if you can really go the distance. I feel like if you can get through this you can get through anything!