I don’t have anxiety with my boyfriend. There’s complete trust and I see my future with him. We have almost perfectly aligned values. The only anxiety comes from knowing he will say I love you soon…I don’t know if me feeling like he is my home…safe, secure…is love. He makes me laugh… Turns me on…
The more I write, the more I think, “yes, of course this is love!”
I don’t need to be in constant contact with him when we’re away. I’m good with my own space. We’re both in graduate school and I work full time. When we’re together, I enjoy that too. Should I always want to be with him? Or is that a cultural lie?
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