Search Results: guys noticing me

Looking for some honest male perspectives on a situation that’s been really messing with my head all insights welcome?

I've worked with t his guy for years. We’ve always gotten on well — there’s been natural chemistry, a bit of flirty banter, and a closeness that gradually deepened. Over time, we started messaging more often outside of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, does she like me?

So i know this girl, i really like her, but i dont know if she does like me or not. Whenever were hanging out with our friend group or getting food, she always sits next to me, in some instances, it feels like she choses...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I attract younger men?

I'm married to a man 5 years older then me and I've always preferred older men when it's came to relationships. I'm very happily married and my husband is the love of my life but before I met him I struggled getting men...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If men love when women dress modest then why is there this assumption that women wearing revealing clothes is for mens attention?

I noticed a lot of men say that women wear revealing clothing for male attention but how would that even make sense when the large majority of men are attracted to modesty? Wouldn't dressing for male attention be...

Apple1996

Master Age: 29

Why do girls seek validation from strangers and allow these simps to like and comment on their selfies?

My girlfriend used to call me insecure for having an issue with her thousands of followers, all pervy guys liking and commenting on every pic she would post, I told her I don't want someone who's constantly entertaining...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think my friends are right about being hypocritical for not wanting to date autistic men and have high standards?

My friends says I’m very hypocritical because I refuse to date autistic men. They told me it’s better if we don’t date neurotypical men and reject them because they won’t understand us and they will hurt us so I’m missing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To the women with boyfriends?

To the women with boyfriends. So this girl during training class was eyeing me for a couple of times. Very attractive woman and I thought nah she'll never notice me. I thought maybe late 20s early 30s. Very vintage...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hobbies & Leisure

My ex followed my new crush? why? and he knows who he is to me …?

so when I was with my ex , before he became my ex, he brought up a guy that I used to talk to before we made it official. I didn’t understand why he was asking me questions about him, as far as like what I knew about...

Astrocake

Xper 5 Age: 24

Flirting

Girls, How do you show a guy that you are interested in him?

What signs do you give guys when you want to be approached or just show them a little that you are interested. And do you think that guys notice them?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why are younger men attracted to older women? Seeking some perspective?

I'm 41, but I look younger thanks to good genes and staying fit. I'm a mom to two amazing girls under 9, and although I'm separated, I carry myself with a joyful, confident, and sassy energy. Lately, I've noticed that I'm...

Tulipep1

Xper 3 Age: 42

Is he just being friendly or is there something more teacher?

He’s the only male teacher working at the kindergarten. I'm currently studying and I recently started working at this kindergarten, which is really close to my school — so it’s easy for me to go back and forth. When I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Dear Girls how attractive do you find redhaired/blonde guys?

I can't help but notice how most men considered attractive are the usual "tall, dark and handsome" type. Height and 'handsomeness?' aside, how attractive do you find guys with more pale skin and red/blonde hair?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did he try to feel me intentionally?

I was stuck in an elevator for 20 mins, then firefighters came to pry open the elevator door. The elevator floor wasn't aligned with the 1st floor but was suspended mid air. So we all couldn't walk out of the elevator. We...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when a girl texts you out of the blue to “check in to see how I was doing and wishes me well.” is she interested/attracted to me?

So I haven’t spoken to this girl in like 7 months or so. We used to work together and she was my manager. Before I left and quit that job, because of family issues, I told her and my GM that I would be back but now I’m...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have a situationship with this guy and I don’t know what to do?

As i said, i (27) have a situationship with this guy (29), we live in different cities which are around an hour from each other. I know that he is into me (other people noticed, his body language says it all, he is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is this cheating or disloyalty?

So my boyfriend got angry and upset because he noticed I was accepting random guys on instagram just requests, however I did not follow them back or message or anything just accepted. I didn’t think anything of it just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have a situationship with an avoidant and I don’t know what to do?

As i already said, i (27) have a situationship with this avoidant guy (29), i define him avoidant because he NEVER texts first, he’s just there telling me that he’s happy to hear from me, but never initiate conversation....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Why aren’t there any decent men nowadays?

I know a lot of people keep asking me why I’m still single. Why haven’t I found a man yet. Well most guys nowadays don’t want to get to know someone or want to play around. I’m autistic so it makes dating a lot harder...

Anonymous

(25-29)