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So I have dated very few people and only really thought of it after knowing them a long time ‘& only by the time I was already falling in love or already IN love, tho still was not ready for a relationship and even ambivalent about just dating. I have never ever dated to experience & learn better how to date- dating was only after thought to my interest in a specific person.

it occurred to me that this can be very problematic. If you very rarely like anyone I think you can have a false- positive impression of their character. Just bc I’m so very rarely interested in someone this does not mean that anyone I AM interested in os necessarily good for me as a person/ partner or is even a good person at all.

And ultimately in my opinion experience is crucial. Every train wreck I’ve encountered on romantic scenarios was not due to anyone being evil but bc I had no clue WTF I was doing bc I was not used to caring about someone that I was also “into”. And I was extremely uncomfortable dealing with certain inevitable vulnerability etc plus brain freeze 😂

Anyhow , I think in interest of self development & interpersonal capability , I should consider dating as part of regular life & not a rare artifact that maybe I’ll encounter in a lifetime.

Now, when I say date I mean meeting you getting acquainted. I do not mean hook ups or vetting people for whatever agenda. Just getting to know people in a romantic contexts.

Of course I’ll be upfront so no one’s tine will be wasted if they are expecting sex or something heavily physical quickly. I’m Audi not interested in anyone paying for anything so no one is getting explored with no return.

Would it bother you to be asked out by someone who wasn’t blown away by you but was open to getting to know you?

There are some contradicting statistics. I myself have seen it go both ways. Some men have longer legs proportionally to their total height. But from most of the people I have seen, it is the women who have higher hips if their total height is equal or even shorter. There are women I even saw on quora who claim that males over a foot taller have lower hips and shorter leg inseams than her. Since most women's legs appear to be proportionally longer, that means when they sit down they appear shorter than they are. A man of the same height will look taller than the woman when sitting because his torso is longer.

In your experiences, do you agree? Who has shorter torsos?

For an example look at the Gates family.

The tallest one looks the shortest when they sit.

Jen is 1.7 meters.

Bill is 1.77 meters.

Mel is 1.68 meters.