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Search Results: should i approach him
Do men really wait for women to make the first move. If she does, is she viewed as thirsty?
i really like this guy and i want to get to know him. But im scared if i initiate conversation I’ll be seen as thirsty. I dont want to force it. I see him a few times a month. We’ve had small interactions but I’m wanting...
Autumnfall27
Xper 2 Age: 29 Girls, If you really wanted to hook up with a guy and he originally asked you out on a traditional date would you rather have him just ask you over?
So I’ve been chatting up a girl I met online for 2 weeks. She’s real and verified. We talked on the phone and everything matches up. I was teasing, funny and flirty in my messaging but never brought up sex. She also...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I give up looking for a girlfriend?
I got rejected 13 times in a row approaching girls. I never was rude either when i got rejected. I say to the girls,”excuse me, i thought you were pretty, is it fine if i get your number. All of them either said,...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I approach my gym crush?
I’ve got a big crush on this gym trainer! I've been noticing him for about a month now, and I think he's noticed me too. He looks extremely attractive but also a bit shy or insecure. Whenever I catch him looking at me, he...
WhyNotaskSomeone
Xper 4 Age: 24 How would I approach a girl with interest that I don’t really validate in the first place?
So me and this girl met as I added her on ig because we have mutual friends and I think she looks good. We talk on ig here and there but it is always positive and I never really validate her like that. It’s always...
vcr123
Xper 4 Age: 25 He is still emotionally distant and is not initiating contact since our first big fight 4 weeks ago. What should I do?
We had our first big fight four weeks ago. He told me why he was upset, and I have apologised for my part in the fight. He is now responding to my texts, and will reluctantly return my calls. But he won’t initiate contact...
Thaleia
Xper 5 Age: 38 How do I approach a girl that I don’t really validate like that but we are cool and cordial to each other?
So me and this girl met as I added her on ig because we have mutual friends and I think she looks good. We talk on ig here and there but it is always positive and I never really validate her like that. It’s always...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it bad that the guy I met is shorter than me?
So I’ve always had this mindset that I need a guy that’s taller than me. I am 5’11” in a half. I only want men taller than me. My friends said I need to get rid of that mindset of needing a man taller than me and give...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would getting to know her be a horrible idea?
I just graduated college. I’m 22 years old and there’s this one girl ( a lesbian ) who I’ve had a couple of classes with in the past but it’s been a couple semesters. Once I was walking up to my desk and I caught her...
Helloeriss01
Xper 7 Age: 25 Is it wrong that I’m attracted to white men?
Okay so I’m a black woman and I like all kinds of guys of races as long has they treat me right. My family prefer us to stick with our own race and my dad said he doesn’t want me going though racism if I date outside my...
Anonymous
(25-29) I think my guy friend is projecting, how should I approach him about it?
So first my friend is about 2-3 years younger than me (I’m 24 he’s 21) we used to be coworkers but now we work at other jobs now. A quick little background about him, he used to be bullied and picked on a lot by girls in...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m going to date a lesbian for the first time?
I just graduated college a few weeks back. I’m 22 years old and leaving college is definitely abrupt especially considering I know a bunch of people still in college. There’s this one girl ( a lesbian ) who I’ve had a...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to overcome fear of approaching women?
Being a male virgin at 25, I fear I’ll be faced with incessant rejection. And a bad reputation for asking too many out. I feel like almost every woman I ask out who is even close to my age (21-29) will be repelled by me...
Gobzapper
Xper 5 Age: 27 What would have been the correct thing to do?
I was shopping in Victoria secret today and when I was finished I went to Starbucks. When I was ordering my coffee some guy approached me and told me he saw what I had bought from VS, and that he had followed me into...
Anonymous
(36-45) What did I do wrong? should we stay friends? I grew up in a conservative country so all of this is new to me?
I have this friend I liked her and she said she doesn’t want a relationship and she wants to be polygamous. we agreed to stay friends but we became way less close 2 months later she approached me and asked me if I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) How does one 'put themselves out there'?
I would ignore it if it were only one or two of my buddies telling me this but I am getting told this by a couple of my friends that as a guy, I'm supposed to be 'putting myself out there'. I didn't express any...
Al_Musafir
Xper 6 Age: 25 Is doing this worth coming across creepy?
I graduated college like a week ago. I’m 22 years old and leaving college is definitely abrupt especially considering I know a bunch of people still in college. There’s this one girl ( a lesbian ) who I’ve had a couple...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I approach her without seeming creepy?
I graduated college not too long ago like a week ago. I’m 22 years old and leaving college is definitely abrupt especially considering I know a bunch of people still in college. There’s this one girl ( a lesbian ) who...
Anonymous
(25-29) I miss him, what should I do?
So the beginning of last month I met a guy. He was a bit older than I am and at first, I thought it was a little weird seeing that we had a nine-year age gap. He is a college student like I am. The way he approached me...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is there a chance this guy likes me?
So I met this man in college about the first week I was put in a group with him and some other girl and he had asked for my insta when he got moved to a diff group he mouth and point that he wanted to come back. His...
Anonymous
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