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She won’t let me meet her boyfriend unless I have a boyfriend. She only wants to hangout with me if her boyfriend is out of town and she’s bored. She only texts me when she’s bored at work. Usually when she comes over to my house I spend like $200 to host her and buy her a bunch of food, the last time she came over she bought her own food because I was flat broke and ever since I’ve been asking her to hang out and she said no. I bought her a designer hoodie for her birthday and I had to beg her for like 2 months to pick it up because all she wanted to do was hang out with her boyfriend. I help her look for jobs, when she gets call backs and interviews she doesn’t even tell me until after everything is done and doesn’t even tell me thank you. She keeps telling me to go to concerts with her, bands I don’t even like. She buys the tickets then tells me to reimburse her, I don’t even like the bands!! Then I told her I struggled with her depression, I’ve been pretty open with her, out of nowhere, she started started sending me memes that depression isn’t real and that I need to leave my house and make friends. But I literally ask her to hang out and she tells me no and depression is real? Her mom died like 6 months, she should know depression more than anyone else. I don’t know what’s wrong with her. I’m trying to be understanding but what the hell