Search Results: can you find a partner when you are lost

I was wondering if there would be a guy that would still be interested in me. I have pcos (non contagious disorder) compounded with a digestive disorder. When I was 19, I started to gain a ton of weight, even though I was active and eating healthy. I gained over 100 pounds over the last 10 years. When I turned 29, I was at my heaviest, and no matter what I did, I couldn't lose weight, plus I felt really sick. So, during these years, I kept my distance and didn't date.

I am 31 now, and lost over 100 pounds. I am 134 pounds, and continue to lose weight and get back to normal. However during my ordeal, my body isn't as great as it used to be, so I have slight stretch marks and mild hair loss. I am outgoing, caring, and sweet (at least that's what everyone tells me). My friends tell me I'm pretty and adorable, and I make them laugh.

Now, I haven't dated in a really long time. I can't eat out at a restaurant because I can only eat very specific food that I have to prepare (not by choice, it's the only thing I can digest). I still know how to cook, and I could make regular meals for my guy, and he could eat it all if he wanted. He could also go and pick up whatever food whenever he wanted, because I can't eat it. I can go out for several hours, and it usually goes well if it's colder outside. Although, if it's hot out then I do get a bit sick/faint and would just need to stay inside or find a way to cool off (like at the beach, just be underneath the big umbrella).

It is a bit difficult to meet new people, since I work from home. I don't need someone to take care of me, because I can do that myself. I would like a partner in life, someone who cares for me and I for him. Someone we could share adventures, stories and support one another (emotionally and career wise). If I tried a dating site, usually they want to go out to eat, and I don't know if there would be a man that is ok with my situation? What do you all think?

I'm a girl, he's a guy. We're police officers. We've been best friends & work partners for 7 years. He's been with me through a divorce, a near fatal car accident & then the birth of my child, I've been with him through a divorce, the depression that followed & recently, a marriage. He's the most loyal, honest, moral man i know, until now. The thing is, we've always been respectful, he's always been attractive to me but I never acknowledged it & he did the same. For 7 years we were perfect sibling like friends. Well, last year he was drinking & we were texting, as usual & he told me he used to think about marrying me & that he's been attracted to me since the day we met. He began to name times, conversations & events that were significant to him. He told me he wished we would have gotten together & he regrets not speaking up. I was but overwhelmingly flattered. I confessed that I felt the same. Since then we have engaged in a fantasy "what if" relationship, complete with sexting. The issue im having is this, he remarried his ex wife a week after he confessed to me. They are trying to have a baby. I am in a ltr with a man who is not very good to me but I've never cheated on him or considered it until now. My best friend wants to have an affair with me. I want him, I would love to be with him because we love each other & want each other so much. I dont know how we could be detached though & I'm not sure who I'm more concerned about, him or me. I realize how selfish this is, we both agree that the right outweighs the wrong. If we do this am I going to lose my best friend? If we don't do this will he find someone else? I'm confused, kind of.