Search Results: friend with benefits

Friends with benefits ghosted me?

So I have sexting relationship with a guy. He lives in another country. He told me last week he’s coming to my country but different city. He then asked me to come over to hook up. I can’t I’m working. Then he joked and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What if God hates me?

I've always been alone, I've never had a friend, I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never been in love in my life. I studied with bad people in high school and university. Spoiled people who use everyone for their own...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why would a guy from work still look at me after choosing to sleep with someone else?

26 yo- not much dating experience In the first week at my new job there was an outing with all departments. I was in a group with people in their 20s and we played truth or dare. A guy asked me who is the cutest and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I message my friends with benefits?

I met this guy while overseas and we hooked up a couple of times. He’s now coming to the country I live for work. It’s a one hour flight. He mentioned I should come next week. I agreed but I haven’t heard from him since....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Girls, Getting a Mammogram Soon? Here are Some Tips!

Point of view: You've just celebrated the big 4-0 a few months ago but now you're standing topless in a clinical suite staring at the big machine that's about to press your girls like a panini. For the past ~27 years your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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I got stood up by my ex friends with benefits yesterday, I messaged him 3 times if he was coming and got no reply?

After he said he'd be on his way when he finished work. Got a message this morning to say he smelled a rat and didn't trust me. I asked him what he meant and he said doesn't matter I don't trust you. and I just know he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Do women ever have regrets for wasting a man’s time just because they like the attention (but don’t want to date him)?

I just had another woman lie to me about wanting to meet up for a date but kept making excuses at the last second to bail. This went on for a few weeks. But she kept texting me to chat. And we texted a lot. It was clean...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I just had another woman lie to me about wanting to meet up for a date but kept making excuses at the last second to bail. This went on for a few weeks. But she kept texting me to

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How your friends with benefits relationship started?

ryanbas

Xper 6 Age: 28

Should I persist in pursuing a girl who seems uninterested?

I've been interested in a girl I've been seeing for a while, so I finally asked her for her number. After getting it, I texted her the first day, but she took a while to reply. I asked if she was available to meet up...

Mkxulu

Xper 5 Age: 29

Other

Do you believe that the best things in life are free?

I't think they should be, but if its love or a friends with benefits, I personally never found (I thought I did once or twice that I found love, but I was wrong). So I guess they are for some lucky people, but for most...

foxsquirrell

Yoda Age: 41

Has too many dating categories complicated things?

Even though there are more categories and options in the dating world, has that really complicated things. Now there is another additional term called the situationship. Then we have to be specific on what's the reason...

Daydreaming98

Xper 3 Age: 28

What's the difference between claiming someone as a girlfriend vs a long term friends with benefits?

I don't know the difference. I've actually only had 2 men claim me as a girlfriend my entire life and those relationships never lasted past 4 months. Whereas my longest relationship was a friends with benefits for 8 years...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Is being a pushy a bad thing?

I love my friend to death, but she is the most unromantic, un sexual person I know. All of my friends say I’m a tad pushy when it comes to their love lives, and in a sense, yeah I am but it’s only because I’m a hopeless...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why being born in 1990 is an amazing thing :)

First of all it's a nice number. I got to experience the year 2000 when I was just 10. I didn't even understand fully that this was a big deal but still had fun :). It's very easy to keep track of my life because it fits...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

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My ex is flirting with me does he want me back or is he playing with me?

he broke up with me then messaged me three months later. We are talking now a LOT and flirting/being super sweet. what do you think his end goal is? Why would he leave and then come back and pretend nothing happened :( Is...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Has everyone lost their minds?

In reading so many of the posts about the normalized status of cheating/side pieces, poaching married/committed people, cuckolding, friends with benefits, hookups, "situationships" (wtf?), blah... blah... blah... I've got...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Can a former friends with benefits remain a friend after the benefits end?

Recently I started a friends with benefits situationship with a friend that I met 2 years ago, we usually meet once a week in a group with other friends. I always felt a good connection with him, for example laughing at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he want to be friends or more than friends?

I've had a casual thing going on with this guy kind of a friends with benefits situation. He recently introduced me to some friends of his. When introducing He said I was his friend then he said a really good friend. The...

Anonymous

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