What if God hates me?

[Anonymous]

I've always been alone, I've never had a friend, I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never been in love in my life. I studied with bad people in high school and university. Spoiled people who use everyone for their own benefit. I'm 22 years old now. I look hopeless towards life and I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I'm sure, God, there are a lot of people for those people. Why didn't he give it to me when he was presenting it to them? Those guys beat the girls and cheat on them, but then they lie to the girl and she trusts his word. But I would never do that, if it got cold in cold weather, I would never hesitate I would give my coat or my jacket or my cardigan, I would always be with him. Why did God curse me with loneliness?

[Alli112]

Maybe stop relying on a God to control your life and start thinking about how to improve things?

Don't have friends? Go out into the universe and engage.

If you don't have a hobby, get one, you'll find people who share that hobby online if nowhere else. Almost every town has an animal shelter or food bank, which can be great places to volunteer. Even if you don't end up making a close friend, you'll still experiencing the satisfaction of being beneficial to those in need and of having positive interactions.

Based on your attitude towards women, if your statements above are accurate to your mindset, it's probably not a good time to try and date anyway. Low key get to know some women (NOT people you'd be attracted to) on a personal level, and give yourself the chance to realize that women are people, not stereotypes. You'll feel better about the idea of dating afterwards.

Dude, right now it's giving "nice guy" in the bad way, and that is very unlikely to serve you well.

[Anonymous]

God doesn't hate anyone. God is just indifferent and gave us free will

but free will unfortunately includes people doing bad shit and being selfish

sometimes you have to learn to carve your own path and not rely on God to do everything for you. this is a test from God to prove yourself

don't think for a sec because God is "punishing" you means he isn't punishing others

those girls who are chasing after the abusive bad boys are facing their own punishment themselves and the bad boys will receive their own punishment afterwards

if I were you I wouldn't feel sorry for them. they made their own choices and will reap the consequences for those bad choices

I ain't religious by the way but I know God exists. people just don't understand God very well

[Asker]

What would you do if you were in my place? Girls often cheat and are not faithful And you pray to God to give me a decent lover but He doesn't answer your prayer and leaves you alone I tried so hard, I prayed all the time, I told God to give me too, I said I wanted a lover too, but God never gave me one. God gave to others I'm always alone, I never had a friend or a lover I am angry with God, I don't want to do anything for him anymore, I don't want to pray for him.

[Opinion Owner]

you can always relocate. travel the world. be a passport bro and find some good women in other countries

you ain't gonna find a loyal girlfriend in the west much less a wife who is actual marriage material

you might think you're alone but you're not

50% of marriages end in divorce, the other 50% may consist of a cuckold marriage
male suicide rates are at an all-time high, females are drugged up on anti-depressants

not to invalidate your feelings but God is collectively punishing all of us for virtue signal yet cheating on our spouses, for the unethical gender transition surgery of minors, for the glorifying of murdering unborn babies in the womb, for flooding the country with illegal immigrants who then rape and murder those who let them in the first place, for plastering sex (which should be private) all over the world publicly in the form of pornography, prostitution etc.

you can pray all you want but God isn't failing us. we're failing God by not doing our part and riding his coat tails to an easy life. life isn't easy or fair and I wouldn't want the type of girls you're after, they're reaping what they sow and you wouldn't want that drama in your life

don't be angry at God. heck I could be angry at God too but I'm not. there's always a double edge sword with free will. don't be like the liberals and feminists who try to control this free will. let it happen and people will reap the consequences of their actions

[Asker]

Aren't most love relationships, which I think are happy, actually happy? Are there people who are married but cheat on each other? Or are they divorcing each other?

[Asker]

I don't know if most relationships are disorderly and unhealthy because I've never been in love.

[Asker]

, I am not very rich, in this economic period, girls hang out with rich men instead of sitting at home and being bored.

[Opinion Owner]

most relationships aren't actually happy or loving no matter how much they say it is, it's just a front

it's easy to think that when couples are putting up a facade in public but when you learn to analyze body language closely you can tell the fakeness within

the "happy" couple you see on the street one day might not exist in a few weeks time, breakups happen quite often and marriages would be lucky if they went past the average duration of 7 years

I understand you think you might be missing out on something but that's really idealizing what you think it should be. our entertainment has done a good job in idealizing it and sometimes romanticizing toxic relationships

[Asker]

How are you so positive and wise?

[Asker]

I can't be as calm as you

[Opinion Owner]

I mastered stoicism at several years ago though I guess it really came from my fascination with the Jedi from Star Wars. I'm also a huge fan of NBA legend Kobe Bryant who has the mindset I tried to emulate early on

before that I was a naturally observant kid whom everyone thought was dumb because I couldn't speak until I was 6 but I was learning from the mistakes of others

but really though you should try playing chess frequently and play each game till the very end. you're emotional state can be the difference between you winning and losing each game

[dreamstar72]

God doesn’t hate you. More likely you hate yourself because in order to find love you must put a little effort in finding love.

[Anonymous]

There are no gods. Never was.

[Asker]

can we talk? I don't believe it anymore either

[Asker]

Can we talk privately then delete or block me