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I met this guy in October last year at a dinner gala event. We were placed on a seating arrangement and he ended up sitting next to me, we talked that entire night and we instantly clicked, it felt as if we had already known each other for years.
Then that same night, there was a party going on, I attended and he ended up being there too! He first came, put his hands gently on my shoulders asking if I'm okay, and he was winking at me, smiling the entire night. For context, he was my friends mutual she brought along that night. Fast forward to November, he texted me asking if we can hang out some time, and I agreed. We texted briefly in December, he did invite me somewhere but I was out of the country and couldn't make it.
Now this year jan he liked my stories, commented on my posts and even texted me briefly. By feb, I had texted him first that day to find out if he still studies at the university I'm currently at, coz that's where he went last year (he is in his last year ), and he said no but he will visit more often now that I am there. Then he asked for my number and sent me a text asking if I'm seeing anybody, I said no & then he sent a text saying he wants me and I told him we can give it a try. We spoke, he invited me to meet up with him to get to know each other better in person, coz he sucks at texting, I seriously couldn't make it to any of the 5 hangouts; I had other things those days. We eventually did meet twice so far this year, one in feb and last week Monday as he came to visit me on my campus which is 30 minutes away from his. We were supposed to meet yesterday outside of campus, but I couldn't make it to the venue he invited me to. but I feel as if I am letting him down by not attending. Also I still live with my parents although I am a 2nd year university student, and my parents still treat me like a high scholar that I can't go out unless it's with 2 specific friends. I feel as if it's too good to be true that he not giving up

I recently met this guy. Seems pretty nice. He has similar interests. Unfortunately, lives a couple of hours away but he wants to eventually move closer to where I live (he lives in the middle of nowhere, I live in a major city, and he's been wanting to move to the major city before meeting me). So I'm okay with the distance...

Then I caught on, he doesn't have a job. He hasn't had a job in four months because apparently, his last job scammed him. He's currently looking for one that pays him well so he can move. I had asked him what about a part-time job until he finds one, and he said he rather not.

He has an associate with computers and was working IT but felt like a drone. I'm kind of at a conflict with myself because it doesn't make sense to only have a 2-year degree expecting to be making salary money while being completely unemployed and a past of him not being able to keep jobs because he simply doesn't like them.

I like this guy but if he's going to be someone who doesn't get a job or at least some kind of income I don't see a stable future with him. But I want others' opinions to make sure.

I'm not worried about him mooching off of me as I'm someone who was raised not to do that (and seen from other's experiences of how poorly it ends).

They are typically the ones that grow up to be successful (even get married and have kids), moved on as if nothing ever happened and never once reached out to their former victims of their bullies. In fact, in you even confront them about it years later, they suddenly don't remember anything. They would even greet you as if you were some friend or acquaintance they had a good time with or greet you as if meeting you for the first time, lol.

Seriously are they actually narcissists? What do you think?