Search Results: confused by a guy

How can I not fall any deeper?

So there's this guy. He keeps flirting with me and if I ask him why he does that, he just would tell me to chill like the other girl friends that we have. There are times when I try to flirt back (but I really suck at it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

[22M] [22F] I’m being ghosted and feel bad?

Last week I (22M) met an Italian girl (22F) who came to the United States 2 weeks ago on Bumble. We've talked like a week and after that arranged a date. Before the date we have seen each other most naturally (no poses,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why did he sound so done with me by the way he was talking to me today?

we were at track practice and we do shot put. it was me, my coach, another guy, and him. last practice (Friday) was just everyone except for him so it was different before (esp cus i acted differently). today, we took...

hopelessromantic11

Xper 2 Age: 21

Guy's Behavior

He swears we are just best friends but then does this? I’m confused?

So we’ve known each other for years and are very close. We hung out Friday night and just relaxed had a couple drinks and listened to music. We also took the enneagram quiz to see our personality types. He decided he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why is this guy so confusing?

My questions are always about the same fella lol, but I blame him for being so confusing. Let me catch you up. So I've had a guy best friend for two years now. We've always had a dynamic that outsiders told me was...

RosieGurl

Xper 3 Age: 24

Dating

Why am I attracted to controlling men is it okay?

I've been seeing this guy and when we went on a date he squeezed my hand hard it hurt a little and it was weird cause i was confused why I'm not bothered by it. It felt good. He also took my phone from me so I didn't look...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, unsure if how I handled this is weak to a girl coming from a guy or whether I'm crazy for being confused & just question my attractiveness?

Recently I was dating someone for a couple months, had seen each other every week and spoke consistently for the entire time. She said she was impressed by me 7 my direction, she was attracted to me, she felt 100% like...

Dc1996

Xper 1 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Is this man interested?

Met a guy at a Meetup event. We briefly talked and I felt mutual attraction and chemistry. I messages him on the app and shorty asked if he wanted to attend a market event. He said yes, and gave me his #. It wasn't really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Don’t know if I should stay or leave?

Okay so, although my boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 years, we have been officially boyfriend and girlfriend for 1 year and 4months. He’s 21 just like myself, matter of fact we’re 2 weeks apart in age....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is this guy interested?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is this guy interested in developing a friendship?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Do I have feelings for him? why am I having so much trouble getting over him?

So a while ago there was this guy I matched with on tinder. He was attractive enough for me to swipe right on, but I still wasn’t 100% attracted. I sometimes just swipe right on guys even if I don’t find them 100%...

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

Relationships

Guys, is he interested in me or confused?

I met this guy on xbox months ago, he is Australian. he is egotistical and we play together and everyday. I am American. he has revealed a lot about himself , tells me what he’s doing and where he's...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

I'm confused by guy's behaviour between dates. He takes forever to respond to messages and doesn't always initiate plans. Why is that?

I've been talking and going on dates with this guy for a few months. In person he is great and we are definitely all over each other. But between dates (and sometimes there are weeks between dates) we text but I find he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy enter into a serious relationship knowing full well he has feelings for someone else?

Im experiencing this right now with a few people in my life, he's what most people would say 'is always different around her' and clearly maintains some emotional investment for her as they have known each other for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why when I don't dress revealingly, don't act poorly/sleep around, am decently attractive, etc... do I seem to attract men that are simply sleazy?

So met this guy at a local golfing site we got to talking - this is about the fifth time we've talked - and decided sure why not what's the harm in phone numbers. He seems decent. So last night we started chatting, seemed...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it ok he sends me a few voice notes every day?

Yes - I’m talking about the same dating app guy who lives in a different (close by) country that I met recently. We are voice noting each other every day and still getting to know each other. Since he moved to voice...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why is a coworker suddenly saying hi/bye and making small talk?

I came back from a break from work after some weeks/months and the first day he saw me after that he acted shocked to see me and said some along the lines of “I know we never really talked much but feels like I haven't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Trust issues or anxiety?

This is about the same guy in the previous question. He suffers from anxiety and depression. He pushed me away. While I was very confused he took his ex back. He said that women have rejected him his whole life and he...

miomiom

Xper 2 Age: 45

Relationships

Is there any chance of amends?

so embarrassing to admit. i basically catfished a guy i was in a situationship with to prove he wasn’t being honest about talking to other people. he and i were involved for 8 months. he would consistently go silent and i...

Anonymous

(25-29)