Search Results: letting go

What can I do to get her back to treating me like how she used to?

This girl and her friend came into my work (retail) to pick out Christmas gifts for her family. This girl and I vibed and I got her number but she told me she was leaving to go back home for winter break. So during the...

Chaseypoo

Xper 2 Age: 31

Dating

What do you think?

My boyfriend is 40, and his mum has recently come to visit for approx 11 weeks. Anyway, it's clear there is a mismatch between what they both want. He wants her to stay at the house he bought her whilst she's here, so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

As a white man, I don't date white girls who fetishize black guys and some people think it's racist. Why is it so controversial?

I have no problem having a fling with a white girl like that. But letting things go serious? Lol. No way. I've been with a few girls like that and asked them about it. They told me that it was a phase they grew out of,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why does a strong and tall female martial artist also wants a stronger partner (stronger than herself)?

My friend's older sister is married, already with two kids and the couple are in their late 30's. She's a 5'9 martial artist and has been in the military before. Her husband is her male counterpart; martial artist, served...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why do I feel like I’m letting fear prevent me from reaching my fullest potential by passing up opportunity? How can I gain more confidence in myself?

I understand that nobody in life is here to hold my hand every step of the way and guide me. I get that. And I’m not asking anybody to. I understand that my progress in life is entirely dependent on me and what I bring...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Family & Friends

Intense fear of flying, how to help?

Long story short, I have a 32 year old sister in the Midwest, and through the years, I’ve always flew over to see her and other fam. Went last August. I’ve been trying to switch things up and every time I ask if she’d...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend hasn't come home - what should I do?

Gonna keep as brief as possible: Been with boyfriend for over 4 years - very happy and living together with our cat. He likes a drink with friends - I'm more introverted - that's fine - happy for him to go and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What would you do if your live-in boyfriend didn't come home?

hollygoeslightly

Xper 7 Age: 43

Family & Friends

Do"YOU"think my moms being"WAAAY"too controling and strict over"MY"life, I AM about to turn 27... I'm autistic though?

So this has been a sorta"BATTLE"for a while between my mom and i! So long back... we"ALL"drank diet coke whenever we ate out"UNTIL"..."SOMEONE"told my mom about artificial sweeteners saying"SHE"doesn't let"HER"kids drink...

erseyller

Xper 1 Age: 30

Family & Friends

How to deal with a bratty 16 year old?

I did a post a few days ago explaining my situation. My parents left me with my you ger sister and my neice. I'll link the question down below: How to look after a 16byear old and 7 year old? ↗ So this is more of...

artsy_dragon

Xper 7 Age: 26

Education & Career

Would it be weird to send this to my professor?

I have this young professor maybe mid 30s who’s very personable. He was a very good teacher and I took a course with him last semester that changed my life lol. It was probably the best course I’ve ever taken and I’m a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

He only wants a friendship, even though he is physically and emotionally attracted to me. Help?

For the last few months I've been hanging out with this guy every week, just the two of us. A few days ago I decided to confess my feelings to him, and this was his answer: I am the "best person he has ever met" and "one...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

He says I'm amazing, but wants to remain just friends. Why? And what should I do now?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is he just being nice?

I’ve been with the same guy for 5 years. For the first two years I maintained my weight very well. Then I got injured which has eliminated most forms of exercise. I’ve had this injury for 3 years now and it looks like it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What do you need from a man in order to feel comfortable letting your walls down and opening up your heart to him?

Dating can be extremely difficult to navigate these days. Many of us end up developing walls in order to protect ourselves. A lot of men don’t seem to understand what many women need in order to let those walls down and...

L12xX

Xper 2 Age: 34

Dating can be extremely difficult to navigate these days. Many of us end up developing walls in order to protect ourselves. A lot of men don’t seem to understand what many women need

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Guy's Behavior

I don't know what to think of this, am I getting a second chance?

So he went from putting me in ghost mode, saying he doesn’t see us having a future to now since the last time we met up, letting me text him and he told me last night he’s giving me more privileges and to listen to him....

sd1223

Yoda Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Did I overstep by letting someone know I had been thinking about them?

I dated a cop, we ended up reconnecting recently due to a tragedy. He asked me why I stopped talking to him to which I explained he had me blocked so… he said his ex blocked everyone from his phone apparently because he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How should I take this?

Our break up was a bit complicated. We love each other but know there's no future because we don't live close to each other. So there's no hatred or resentment. So everytime I think he just wants to break away from me he...

Cali86

Xper 4 Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

How does one go from thinking you are “the most amazing person” she “has ever met” to thinking “we’re not meant to be” 12 hours later?

I’ve been talking for about a week with what seemed to be an amazing woman of 28 years old with two young children. We met on a dating website. She showed interest and initiated first contact with me. She seemed very...

PositiveFlight

Yoda Age: 49

Dating

Is it normal for a guy to take his time on dates and getting to know me or is he emotionally unavailable?

I work with this guy whom we recently hung out and went to dinner. He asked, and We didn’t call it a date but everything he did that night screamed date; picking me up, paying for dinner, opening the car door for me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)