As a white man, I don't date white girls who fetishize black guys and some people think it's racist. Why is it so controversial?

[Anonymous]

I have no problem having a fling with a white girl like that. But letting things go serious? Lol. No way.

I've been with a few girls like that and asked them about it. They told me that it was a phase they grew out of, "they're not the same person they were 1 year ago," etc... I see their explanation as a serious sign that they're mentally unstable or even have a personality disorder. People with Bipolar disorder are usually like that (they have affective/mood phases).

That doesn't sit well with me.

Am I the baddie, or "the racist," for thinking those girls are not relationship material?

[Guy13]

It isn’t. Your preference and opinion are fine. Live it out.

[Tiger288]

Yes you are. Sorry bro

[Asker]

No one can force me to love a woman who are with me without being really into me. If that makes me racist, so be it.