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Just constantly seeing everyone on social media on holiday, going out for meals, having lots of friends going places, having perfect looks and bodies, relationships, like the perfect lives they seem to have makes me feel really worthless and terrible about myself, biggest thing I feel is I’m wasting my life, I’m in my late 20s have barely any money any friends, just feel like I’m wasting my life nearly everyday as I have nothing compared to these people I realise that social media is a highlighted reel of people’s moments and I’m sure they have bad things too, but when I see people getting paid to go on holiday or pose in outfits I just find it hard to not feel envy and like I’ve wasted my life so much and wish I had those things and wish I was having that instead of sitting indoors with no one to go with or money to spend does anyone else feel like way?

So I've gone on a few dates with this guy - he's nice, funny, smart, attractive, respectful, and he's a college graduate at age 21. Frankly, we have some chemistry, and he meets all of my criteria. He's kind of shy, so although he's asked me on several dates, it seems unlikely for him to push for anything further.

We met about a year ago, but I was in another relationship, and we were just friends. We had gone on a date beforehand.

Our fifth date is scheduled for tomorrow (July 10). My friends are asking whether or not I want to date him long term, and... I don't know. I guess I'm comparing him to one of my exes, who seemed kind of perfect for me. Some part of me just keeps holding back. On the other hand, if he's not a guy for me, who could be?

Should I pursue a relationship with him? Just see where things go? Or is my hesitancy a sign that he's not right for me?