What should I do? how do I handle this?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is satisfied with the relationship, but I am not. He has a lot of great qualities, but I don’t feel emotional support for him. He is dismissive of anything that pains me. Why should I care about his feelings? Nobody is perfect, but I wonder if the relationship is worth it. He says he loves me, but those words feel empty to me.

[_Aragorn]

men doesn't always understand women. i read that you already tried to talk with him about your feelings. some men just don't understand words either. so put your words in questions. get his attention. men are naturally solution-oriented... 👍

try to check whether he is sexually connected or emotionally?

only sexual connection doesn't bring you far

and some men are not emotionally intelligent...

If you know what you want and you can't what you get from the person you already got to know much... just don't regret.

[_Aragorn]

correction of the last sentence: If you know what you want and you can't get what you want from the person you already know much about... just don't hesitate at all and don't regret it.

[Asker]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[_Aragorn]

You're more than welcome. I just posted something about this subject :D please check that if you want. Very relevant. And thank you for selecting as the MHO. ❤️

[Guy13]

Sit down and talk to him. How can he fix what he does not know about ⁉️

[Asker]

I have mentioned it a couple of times. I don’t want to force someone to care about my feelings. It doesn’t seem realistic to expect him to change over night. so I don't know.

[Guy13]

Oh well, I hope he does not become one of those that has to learn the things the hard way.-Nobody enjoys that process. I’m hopeful that it will workout the way you wish…

[Asker]

Yeah thank you. I hope you have a great day

[Wise4myage]

Have you discussed this with him?

[Asker]

Yeah i mentioned it here and there a couple times but I don’t want to force him to care about my feelings … it doesn’t sit right with me but maybe we need a heavier discussion.

[Asker]

Maybe just stay busy with my own thing and see in time

[Wise4myage]

I say try that first and see how it goes.