I am dating a guy for 6 months. But I don’t know if that it’s even relationship. The 3 months everything was fine. But Suddenly he started to distance himself from me. I was thinking that he is under a lot of pressure. Because he had to write a bachelor's degree and study for the state final exams. And on top of that, he had a lot of new projects to work on. I understand that he is busy, so I give him space. But now I am feeling somehow hurt. Because I have feeling that he lost interest. I am the one who try the most. I know that I said that I gave him space…But when more than 10days he didn’t respond to my text. So I have to reach out to him again to see if he was okay. And if I'm lucky, we're in contact, he is with me in contact for a while, and then he suddenly disappears. And it keeps going round and round, and always he said to me that he is really busy, that he even don’t have time for a sleep. Everyone told me that being busy it’s just an exuse, he probably has another girl and lost interest. I want to get a closure. And even if I want to break up with him…I want to do it personally, like adults. But even that is impossible with him, when he dissapear and sometimes reappears. The worst part is, that I hate myself for still have feelings for him. So what should I do? How can I move on, without closure? And why guys behave like this? Playing with other emotions? If he lost interest or find another girl, he could just tell me. Or just break up with me, and not disappear and reappear?
What should I do? How to deal with this?
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Sounds like the guy I was just seeing lol.
You need to move on without closure it suck’s but that is going to be what is best for you. He is not treating you properly and you need to realize you deserve better. You aren’t the problem… he is. What he is doing isn’t okay at all but you can handle something like adults when one person in the relationship isn’t acting like an adult. Move on or you will continue wasting your time and being hurt.
Or... you could have some self respect and break up with him? I didn't see you list that option.